We all desire to not just fall in love—but to be part of that “once in a lifetime” type of love story.

As we are evolving, so are our romantic relationships.

No longer are we satisfied by those unions that are convenient or that seem to fulfill specific ideals that our families or society have taught us we should aspire to.

We are searching for that once in a lifetime crazy type of love—but what really separates twin flames from soulmates and karmic relationships?

The biggest truth is that one of these relationships isn’t better than the other—it just depends on what lifetime we are in, here on earth, and what lessons we currently are in the process of learning.

Sometimes we may experience none of these relationships in a lifetime, and in others we may experience all three.

The reality is that we often don’t truly realize which type of relationship we had until long after it’s passed and the lessons have been absorbed.

One of the first relationships we usually enter into is a karmic one. Karmic relationships often are those lessons that we were unable to learn in a previous lifetime—these people aren’t meant to take it easy on us, because they are meant to change our way of life.

The addiction of karmic relationships is that it seems no matter how many tries we give it—it just doesn’t seem to work.

But that is because karmic relationships aren’t supposed to work out—we aren’t supposed to live our life with our karmic partner.

It’s hard to accept, because it’s usually not an issue of love, or even about compatibility.

Something is just off and doesn’t work, no matter how much we wish it did—but the worst decision we can make is to choose to not let go.

Karmic relationships burn hot and seem almost intoxicating at times, but the entire point of these types of relationships is to come into our lives, change us—and then leave.

Often times, those people who married and divorced young have married their karmic relationship, instead of letting them go when the time came.

The most important lesson for us is that we just have to be strong enough to let them move on when the time comes, because no matter what type of relationship we are in, we shouldn’t have to chain ourselves to it in order to not lose it.

Although some of us may experience several karmic relationships in our lifetime, the next stage after we conquer those lessons is often the soulmate love.

Soulmates can be just the best kind of love—they can be simple and sweet, yet as complex as the notes within a vintage Merlot.

Soulmates often are those we marry and choose to build a life with, because there is just a unique connection present. These are the feel good people in our lives, and they just seem to touch us on an entirely different level.

As wonderful as they can be though, soulmates don’t always take it easy on us.

One of the reasons that we get so confused by which type of relationship we are in, is because in all of these connections, challenges will be present.

None of these relationships are about appeasing us or making our egos comfortable.

Yet the soulmate differs from the karmic relationship by the type of lesson being learned and the way in which it is presented.

Karmic relationships are often about how we view the outside world and others—while the soulmate will trigger those internal lessons involving self-worth, fear, societal pressures and our worthiness of love.

We simply attract at whatever frequency we are currently vibrating on.

Soulmates are those who we feel an undeniable connection to—as if we’ve known one another before simply upon meeting.

The biggest indicator of a soulmate love is that they make us feel like it’s us that needs working on—not them or even issues that exist within the relationship.

Sometimes it’s even the feeling of not deserving the other person.

Certain soulmates come into our lives whose only purpose is to help us realize our greatness and to assist us in taking on those big questions involving the self and starting to discover the answers to further our evolution and process of self-awareness.

Soulmates are also the ones who care about us the most—versus the karmic lover whose only concern is of their own self and needs.

These beautiful types of bonds don’t necessarily have to be romantic even, for more often than not, we travel in similar soul circles within each lifetime—and those who are family aren’t necessarily those who we share blood with.

As transcending and eye-opening as the romantic relationship can be with a soulmate, it isn’t anything compared to the experience of being reconnected with our twin flame.

Twin flames are often regarded as an urban myth of the spiritually enlightened, but as society is raising their level of consciousness, the more this connection is occurring.

Twin flames are a mix of both karmic and soulmate tendencies—along with some entirely new qualities which will only further challenge our ego and sense of self.

Twin flames aren’t just those that we connect with on a soul level, but they are someone we share the same soul with.

As the theory states, twin flames were separated from one soul source in the beginning of time and split into two physical bodies.

There is a mirror like quality when we come into contact with our twin flame—everything that we have spent our lives running from or denying is suddenly in front of us.

These types of lovers confront us with our very fears and ego driven desires, but they aren’t just about what’s inside, they’re about how we interact with every facet of our life.

Not all of us will be reunited with our twin flame, but if we are, it has the possibility to be that once in a lifetime—ain’t nothing ever gonna be the same—type of love.

There will be challenges and fears present, without a doubt—there will be phases of running and chasing, depending upon the spiritual and personal development of both individuals.

But regardless of any of these challenges, it is possible to reunite and stay with our twin flame—although it is speculated that only occurs in one’s last lifetime here on earth.

Regardless of what type of romantic relationship we find ourselves in, there will be obstacles and challenges that have the potential to assist us in our growth and evolution.

The one important thing to remember through all of these types of relationship, is that if someone is trying to move on—it’s vital that we let them go.

Whether they are a karmic relationship whose only purpose is to come into our lives to be the catalyst of change, or if they are the soulmate whose here to challenge us to lovingly become the best person we can, or if they simply are our other half—there is no love that we will have to beg for or hold onto tightly to, out of fear of losing it.

Regardless of what type of relationship it is, the love we deserve is also the one that will want us as much we want it—because the truth is, if we do love someone, the only thing we can do is set them free, knowing that if it is meant to be—they will return.

And if they don’t, then they’re just one of the most beautiful lessons we’ll learn.

Kate Rose

Twin Flames have also been referred to as original light, energy doubles, twin rays, twin hearts, divine complements, and twin souls. For the purpose of this article, though, I will refer to the twin flame and twin flame relationship.

The twin flame relationship is one of the highest forms of relationship there is to manifest at this time. It can also be the most challenging as our twin flame is the mate of our being that is our authentic self as Soul. The twin flame relationship operates from the "Light of Oneness" which encompasses what is perceived as both good and bad shadow aspects of who we are. This relationship offers the biggest arena for our creative expression to manifest if we are able to receive it.

Our twin flame will reflect this hidden shadow element to us more closely showing us where we are off center. If we are off center our twin flame will also be off center in the same area but may not consciously know it. How much the twin flames have integrated their "Soul Light design" with their physical being will determine how long they will be able to maintain a relationship with each other in the same physical environment. There is much that goes on within more hidden levels of relationships that can impact this relationship in the physical realm as well.

We are all souls that step down a portion of our energy into a human form for a unique purpose. In the case of twin flames they have the same electronic blueprint that is very much linked with their Soul's purpose. It is like the twin flames are viewing the same vision for manifestation and integrating it, one from the perspective of woman and one from the perspective of man.

Each has the complementary piece for what the other requires for healing any wounds they may have as well as any work they do in the world. Because they have the same electronic blueprint any process they go through is usually synchronistic whether they are in the same physical environment or across the planet never having physically met before.

When twin flames integrate more of their Soul light design within their physical being, they are like simultaneous explosions of light impacting the rest of the planet as the electromagnetic energy generated from their hearts operates within a unified field.

Exposed in the throes of love's hurricane this love radiates through many dimensions as they are so aligned that they do relationship differently than most others do. They communicate and work together on many layers of consciousness. As Souls, traversing many dimensions as complements, they are feeding the relationship with each other all the time. They dont need to physically be together in the same environment in order to have impact on each other. They don't even have to know who each other for this to occur for the communication occurs at a Soul level.

This is a relationship that "lands" in divine timing. When twin flames meet, having already made the connection with their soul, if they are actively integrating their purpose, there is a recognition that goes beyond language and personality. This is because this is a relationship that does not have to do romance first in order to get to true love.

Twin Flame love is ignited as a sacred marriage between their soul and personality. When they come more into balance with this sacred marriage within themselves they bring a depth of healing and awareness that is quite profound in the impact it has on humanity through many dimensions of space time.

Stripped of their ego defences and karmic patterning any pretending falls away as there fails to be anything that can be hidden in this relationship. They naturally facilitate wholeness. They are whole unto themselves. In that wholeness they are like springboards for each other bringing forward theirs gifts to humanity.

At the highest levels in service this fails to be a relationship where one or the other will dominate in the relationship. Each is a leader in their own right having established a complementary foundation throughout their life for the work they do in the world. When twin flames ignite their passion together they are a very magnetic force of light on the planet. They become each other's greatest champions in service to each other and everyone that comes into contact with them. When people think of having the ultimate soulmate relationship, the Twin Flame relationship is the one they are actually referring to.

In the past, conscious twin flame relationships have been rare. We are now in the times though, where the doors are opened for twin flame relationships to manifest more consciously on a much larger scale.

The Twin Flames are leaders in evolving the consciousness in multi-dimensional relationships on the planet. This divine alliance is awakening inner technologies that facilitate more conscious communication between them, even from a distance. Conscious telepathic communication between twin flames is awakening in the twin flame future now. The alignment within the patterns of their Soul Light Design when integrated as a man and a woman on the earth sends ripples across the planet touching all life on earth through all directions of space time.

Remark: This article contains a lot of information, which is valid for lightworkers who are not in a Twin Flame connection just the same. By no means this article intends to prefer Twin Flames over others on a soul mission here on earth. It is only written with the Twin Flame focus to help people going through this very challenging process and to create a better understanding what is happening. If you are in a twin flame dynamic, all this information might be overwhelming first. Let it settle in and feel into you and reread it. We have to learn and take in a lot in a short time to serve our mission, but also have to be patient with ourselves while going through this process.

 

You meet this person, look them into the eyes and are sucked in like by a tractor beam. The magnetic feeling is so intense – nothing you have ever experienced before. And you know: This is what I have been searching, what I have been waiting for my whole life. Now I am going to live happily ever after. I have found the person that makes me whole, the one that completes me. Right?

 

Wrong! The Twin Flame journey is not about romance in the first place, and we have to learn that the hard way. Especially in the beginning, when the just described bubble love phase ends abruptly. Our egos kick back in when we return into 3D reality and a painful push and pull becomes the new normal and in most cases ending in a painful separation. It does not really help to have the other half of our soul in our mind 24/7. We feel like going insane with all the fears and symptoms showing up, and we are asking ourselves: “What is it that I have gotten into here and why can I not let go of this?”

 

There have been many articles written about the twin flame phenomenon, the process and the stages we are going through, so no need to repeat this here. One thing that is not written much about although it is so important to understand, is the purpose and especially the energetic dynamics between twin flames and how they work. Understanding those two and learning the language of energy will help immensely to move forward in this journey.

 

Why are Twin Flames here?

We often mistake the twin flame connection as a romantic experience, because the feelings are so intense. It is not in the first place. Romance can be the icing on the cake at a later stage. But before we can have that, there is much work to do. The quicker we let go of this idea for now, the faster we move forward. The bubble love phase is our personal bait, the carrot in front of our nose pulling us forward. It is kind of like the Universe is saying: “Here is what you can have, get a little taste of paradise on earth. This is how living in the 5th dimension feels like. But now: Back into 3D with you and get to work.” It seems to be the cruellest thing to us to lose what we wanted and love most. We are left alone, we feel abandoned, unwanted and completely confused and devastated. We start chasing the other person or running away. We are searching for answers, stumble upon the first articles on twin flames and learn that this is different from what we have experienced before. We are kicked into the spiritual world and we awaken on speed to a new reality. It is a roller coaster ride we have never experienced before and we just want it to end. All we want is to be with that person.

We just don’t know how, because our head is trying to find solutions on a 3D/ego/mind level within the learned behavioural patterns and templates. There is one thing guaranteed though: We will never find our answers from a 3D perspective. Everything we had learned and taken on from the 3D matrix programming through societal conventions, education, school, church, the news, the governments, marketing etc. does not apply to this experience. Even more than that: The twin flame journey forces us to drop all of this. Only then a reunion becomes possible. We will explore further why this is the case.

 

Twin Flames are leaders – in a spiritual sense, not in a status/ego sense. It is a leadership to be of service to humanity and planet earth and help people to find back to their true essence and self.

To understand what that really means and why we are asked to transform and change so much, we have to take a closer look into the true purposes of twin flames:

 

Purpose Number 1: Building and strengthening the New Earth Energetic Grid

Twin Flames go on a search when they are going through the painful experience of the push and pull and separation phase. This phase has not only the purpose to heal the individuals, it also serves to connect with other twins all over the world to exchange on experiences, helping and supporting each other in the process and in their missions. We are finding our tribe and are cooperating with each other. Twins and lightworkers are strategically positioned all over the planet to hold, build and fill important locations and portals to support the distribution of the light all over earth. Some will be positioned permanently in one spot, building new community models, new ways of autark living, new ways of education, new ways of business etc., while others are travellers – always ready to follow the next calling into the next region where light and love is needed.

 

Purpose Number 2: Supporting Ascension of the Planet and Humanity

Twin Flames have incarnated at this crucial time on earth to help the planet’s ascension. They are walking side by side with other lightworkers (star seeds and angelic beings) to help raising the planet’s and humanity’s frequency. Twins carry a very high frequency with them, which intensifies after the first encounter in the physical, when the energies that have been separated for so long, reconnect. It is an explosion of pure unconditional love. That is why it feels so unbelievably fantastic. This high vibe of energy is needed on the planet to raise the portion of light in relation to darkness. We have reached an equal balance now between dark and light. The more the frequency rises on the planet, the faster we reach the tipping point when the light takes over the bigger portion and absorbs and transmutes the dark. Light workers (including twins) are here to help this transmutation by transforming low frequencies into high frequencies to free the planet from its 3D illusions and pain and, vice versa, to manifest these high vibrations onto the planet.

 

 

 

Purpose Number 3: Healing the Family Lineage and the Collective

Twin flames often incarnate into very dysfunctional families with a large misbalance of masculine and feminine energies. It can be either very abusive or very overprotected. Twin flames chose to experience living in a misbalance to understand how this feels like, as it is needed to help others to ascend later on. When twins awaken and understand their true purpose and start healing themselves, this has an effect on the whole family lineage. Twins change the energetic field and timeline for the whole genetic past and clear it so that the children incarnating through this lineage in the future will be born onto New Earth directly. There will be no karma left. The same counts for healing collective pain. When twins have healed enough themselves and have gotten used to the transmutation process of energy, which happens through our heart chakras, they will be more and more called in to support healing the collective. This will feel very uncomfortable in the beginning, and can feel like reliving the past, as the amount of low vibrations running through our system is much higher than what we had to handle so far with our own, our twins and our lineage.

 

Purpose Number 4: Teaching new Relationship and Family Templates

Twins are here to teach humanity how life on New Earth will be like, outside of the illusions we took for granted for such a long time. Life on New Earth is based on authenticity, freedom and self-love for the individual and oneness and compassion within the community. All of this becomes possible, when human Ego has been transformed into a free spirit and the hearts have been opened to unconditional love. This will lead to a complete absence of fear. On New Earth, feminine and masculine energies are in complete balance. The female as the creative part will set the right intentions from the heart and deliver the ideas, while the masculine part as the creator will implement. Twins are first to reach this balance and then support spreading this via ripple effect and the connection to twins all over the planet. Twins are the role model for new relationship and family templates, free from dependencies, duties, contracts, compromise. In a world without fear and insecurity, where everyone is valued for what they are, this will be the new normal.

 

Purpose Number 5: Teaching new Societal Templates

Closely related to the relationship and family templates are general societal templates that need to change to make life in the 5th dimension possible. Also these will be completely based on compassion, freedom and authenticity. Honesty will be self-evident. Today, when you ask people to not tell a lie for one day, most would not be able to do so, because our ego uses lies as a means of self-defence. This will change with the help of our lightwork. We will teach how we will live in harmony in the future. Communities that help each other out but honour and respect the individual aspects of each and everyone. The same counts for businesses. Imagine a world without ego and honouring our natural form of being in complete balance. We would not need fashion, fancy cars, fancy watches, make up, cosmetics, shampoo, deodorant etc. Test it yourself and walk down a shopping street and count the shops you would truly need on New Earth and which ones would drop away. Amazing, huh?

 

Now that we have learned what the purpose of twin flames is, we have to dive a bit further into the Twin Flame dynamics and process to understand what is happening for us and why this process is so challenging and painful in the beginning. And – it is very important to understand how these dynamics work from an energetic point of view so that we can use it to move forward quickly and come into a state of inner peace and balance.

 

Insight Number 1 – Your Twin is You

This is what many struggle with to understand when still in 3D thought and believe patterns. We slip into a victim role, we blame, we judge, we go into the “he said – she said” game and we are focused on the other half, only seeing their alleged fears and problems they need to solve. Well, scratch that. The sooner, the better. Of course, it is your choice. If you enjoy the 3D templates and the push and pull dynamics and the running and chasing game, then stick with it. There is only one guarantee: A permanent reunion with your twin will not be possible that way.

We have to understand, that our twin is us. We are one soul in two bodies. So what we blame or judge him or her for, we blame ourselves for. They are our ultimate mirror and they give us exactly what we need for our own healing and growth. That is not always what our ego wants… So when you are blaming them for ignoring you, why are you ignoring yourself? When you complain about them not being honest about their feelings, where are you not honest yourself?

 

 

 

Insight Number 2 – It is all about You

Closely related to that is that we have to learn that it is always about us. And when we have understood that we are one it makes sense, right? If we heal us, we heal both parts.

There is no me or him/her. There is only us. And the faster we focus on ourselves, on our own issues, our own healing, the quicker we will raise the frequency for us, our twin and humanity and feel much more balanced and whole. Working with our inner child, our ego and learning the language of energy in order to transmute fear frequencies into love frequencies through gratitude and forgiveness are three key aspects. This process pushes us to become our true divine self and drop everything that is not authentic about us. It is triggering us until we have pealed off every fake layer and have found back to self-love. A state of being without any self-doubt, hurt, insecurities or other fears.

Our ego loves to step in here and say – why do I have to do all the work and the other part is not taking any effort? Well, read the next insight to get a clearer perspective.

 

Insight Number 3 – the Female is in the Lead

Once we have understood this, the second part to integrate into our awareness are the traits of the female and the male energies. The female energy is the creative energy. She creates with her intuition, her heart and sets the intention. She is preparing the energy field and is setting a certain frequency. Then, the male energy, the creator energy, can follow and manifest. It can never be the other way around. So if you are the more female part in the connection (carrying a bigger portion of female energy, which is independent from gender), you have to really take that in. If you are waiting for your twin to finally heal and get it – you will wait until the cows come home. This will never happen, as he will simply follow your energy. If your intention in the energetic field is waiting or acting out of fear – he will do the same. If you set the intention to move forward, change things, step into your mission, drop fears and parts that are not authentic about you, follow your true hearts desires, he will follow and do the same. And you do not have to talk to him or her in 3D about this at all. As you are connected energetically through your heart chakras, you will inspire him or her energetically. As the more female part, we change and transmute the fear/trauma pattern first and then the male can follow with his healing and then manifest reunion. The more female part sets the intention and creates the circumstances energetically to pave the way for manifestation. Always. Understand that the more male part needs you to do your job so that they can do theirs.

 

 

Insight Number 4 – Silence is Golden

A lot of confusion always comes up about the forced separation for twin flames. What we have to understand is, that this separation is guided by our soul and has its purpose. Our soul wants us to focus on ourselves and our own issues and healing. The transformation happens a lot quicker if we are not distracted by the presence of our other half. We have to understand, that our body is not ready to be able to stand these intense high frequencies we experienced in the bubble love phase for long, as we still carry a lot of old baggage and low fear frequencies. The friction between those two frequencies is too strong. Being with our twin would mean that we would simply burn out and our system would collapse.  Therefore: Recognize the gift of silence for your ultimate good and use this time to focus on your own work instead of wasting energy into chasing and running away from your own lessons.

 

Insight Number 5– Our Inner Child is a Key Holder

When we started our journey on earth, it did not take long until we were completely caught up in the 3D game and programmed with false belief systems and templates. We took for granted what we learned. Everything was based on scarcity and competition. Being not good enough and having to be better, jump higher, perform more… that was our reality. We did not question that maybe what schools, churches, governments, the industries, etc. taught us was not so true after all.

So while growing up in our childhood, we were wounded and hurt because all of this programming was not in line with our true essence. Our fears and traumas that we experience today stem from that time. When we face a certain situation our system recalls the memory of the past and reacts with the same protective strategy we came up with as a child. That results in anger attacks, crying, manipulating etc. We end up in the same mess again and again until we realize that we have to heal our inner child to get rid of the pattern. And no one is better in triggering our inner child than our twin so that we regognize it and heal it. The inner child, when still in sabotage mode, is the nurturer of the ego, giving it the fear patterns it needs to keep us in fear. When we make our inner child our best friend and get it to trust us completely, the ego cannot get any energy and is forced to transform into a higher frequency. Fear patterns are reprogrammed into love patterns this way.

 

Insight Number 6 – Acting out Emotions is good!

Another big misprogramming of the 3D Matrix is that acting out emotions is inappropriate. Crying, screaming, shaking, but also loud laughing or singing in public is simply indecorous in this ego-based society. What we have to understand is that acting out emotions is a good thing! It is a natural reflex that we have for a reason. It is like energetic puking. Children still use that reflex. If they have an energy in their system that does not belong there, they scream, they cry or shake to release it right away. And everything is cool again a couple of minutes later. Until we teach them that it is not okay to behave that way. So we keep all this toxic energy in our system and our emotional body gets an overload up to a point that it starts passing on dense energies into the physical body, which stores it. That manifests as muscle pains, inflammations first and can lead to serious illnesses such as cancer, heart attacks, strokes etc.

So instead of blaming ourselves when we feel like crying or screaming, we need to turn it around and learn that we have to be thankful for the possibility to release it. Compare it with a fish poisoning. Your stomach reacts with a natural reflex to throw up. If you fight that reflex and keep the food in your stomach, you can get very sick and even die. Do yourself a huge favour and instead of blaming yourself, enjoy emotional releases with a big “Thanks that I can let that go now for good”. That again transmutes the energy to a high frequency immediately.

 

Insight Number 7 – Start your Mission now

Don’t wait until your twin is ready to be with you to start your mission you came here for. You are supposed to reach a state of wholeness individually. The Universe requires transformation and change, not waiting until you are both ready. You are here as a lightworker with specific gifts and tasks. Explore your childhood and personality to find out what they are and who you truly are and start using your talents to help others. It does not have to be big, by helping one person you already cause a ripple effect. Your mission also gives you your purpose here on the planet and that is very fulfilling and helps you to move forward and come into a much more balanced state of being. Redirecting energies into something useful helps again to transmute energies to high frequencies of love and compassion. Move forward with your life as if reunion was not happening and you are happy and whole on your own, but know in your heart that your twin will join once all energy blockages between the two of you are cleared.

 

Insight Number 8– We are Transformers

When we have learned to release emotions with gratitude, we have had our first lesson in lightworking. Because that is how transmutation of low frequencies into high frequencies works. Through gratitude and forgiveness instead of blame and judgement, we raise the vibration quickly. This requires to take a different perspective and see the benefit in every situation: What does it teach me, what do I recognize about myself and for my own growth? Who did I meet that is important now to me that I would not have met?… When we take a 5D view on things, we recognize the perfection and purpose in all our experiences. By learning the language of energy and that energy can never dissolve but only transform, we recognize that we always have the steering wheel and we can choose if we want to go down the road of fear or drive up the highway of love.

Once we have learned this transmutation on a micro level, we will be kicked into collective healing, transmuting on a large scale for humanity. That can be completely overwhelming in the beginning and our heart chakra, where we transmute the energy through can hurt like hell until we get used to it. We have to understand, that we are part of a larger organism. Maybe now you can feel with liver cells and what they have to go through when they have to process all the toxic alcohol after heavy drinking and cleanse the physical body from it :-)

By Vera Ingleborg

The Wake Up Experience

The September energies are really something, hm? We have to get used to their power, speed and intensity. They are HOT, baby. And as quickly as they burn, as quickly they are causing a feeling of being burnt out. It is like learning to surf this fiery wave. We have these moments standing on the board thinking: ” Yeah, I am standing, I am surfing, I am navigating – what a bliss!” Just to be thrown off the board by an unexpected current and diving back into emotional turmoil and overthinking. Everything is moving much faster and leaves many of us with a feeling of being completely confused and being completely sick and tired of all of this. “I thought I had left all of this behind me a long time ago! Why are you presenting me this sh*t again???” Many of us are annoyed, frustrated, angry and tired. Very tired. Tired of the ascension process and tired physically. Up to a point where we cannot even think one straight thought and all we want to do is sleep. Up to a point where we just say: “You know what, f*ck it. I don’t even care what happens anymore.”

 

You are at that point? Great! Because that is exactly where the Universe wants you to be. In complete surrender, having let go of any attachment still left. Every little bit within you that still needed healing is now being shed in order for you to come into a state of being to be able to completely rebuild yourself. It really is like Phoenix rising from the ashes. The old self, and with it everything that was not authentic about you is being burned away now. Everything you do not need on New Earth has to go. Fear of not having enough money? Burnt away. Fear of never being good enough for your partner? Burnt away. Fear of death? Burnt away…. If you allow the fire to do its work, the energies, that feel destructive first become constructive quickly. You discover a complete new way of living, when you manage to leave your ego/head out of the game.

 

The time of seeing through the Illusions has started

The September energies want to strip you naked. A blank slate. So you can be who you truly are. You came with nothing and you are leaving with nothing. Why making such a big fuzz in between? September helps you to recognize your divinity and wholeness within. Your perfection and your connection to everyone and everything around you. Understanding how little you need to be happy and to live a fulfilled life. Discovering the child in you that wants to play and explore. The one that hates routines and rules. September helps you to understand that everything you do to yourself, you are doing to the whole. And everything you are doing for yourself, you are doing for the whole. Fear of separation? Burnt away. There is no more space for the 3D illusions. Your materialistic possessions and everything and everyone you clung onto because of your fear of loss? Burnt away. We start to recognize now, that we will always be provided with what we need – if we trust and move forward in our human adventure. If we fully recognize oneness with all that is. After all, life is not supposed  to be planned, it is an experience to be lived day by day.

“Life is not supposed to be planned, it is an experience to be lived day by day.”

September started out with a lot of anger to be released combined with a feeling of being completely lost and lonely. These feelings were mainly triggered by the mass confusion and anger of the collective. As the energies change on the planet, a huge wave of people are waking up – realizing that something is changing and that they are not willing to participate in the old matrix game of being controlled anymore. Their yearning for (self-)love becomes so strong, they cannot suppress it any longer. They feel this urge within to return to their source. They feel that there must be more to life than this. And that makes them feel very uncomfortable, afraid and angry as they have not found a way yet to cope with this overwhelm. We are here to help to transmute these energies. We agreed to do that until humanity is awaken enough and capable of doing that by themselves. So please, give yourself a pat on the shoulder, being grateful and proud to be able to do that work. The September energies want you to scream and cry! They want you to release all this anger in a constructive way. Constructive means choosing love when releasing. Show compassion, gratitude and forgiveness. For yourself and for the collective. That way you transmute them quickly and you cleanse the “energetic air” for all of us.

Mercury Retrograde forces us into Recalibration

At the same time, Mercury Retrograde forced us to go within. As external input is systematically distorted or even completely shut off during Mercury being in Retro, our mind tends to go crazy and into thought spirals. Trying to make sense of it all. These spirals typically get less during the second half of Mercury Retrogrades, which is the phase we entered now. We still feel confused and tired and we just want to take time for ourselves, retreat and let things settle again. And you need it! Just follow these energies the best you can and take this time for yourself and for integration. There are times of knowing and there are times of not knowing. Just as there are times of being and times of doing. That is the whole secret of learning the perfect balance of holding on and letting go. Of giving and receiving. Of going with the flow.

 

We are in the Boot Camp Finals for Ascension

September is a fast paced gateway for change and preparing us for zero-point: The point of the evolutionary leap into a new way of existence in 5D consciousness. And it approaches fast. 2017 is the year of new beginnings. And that is what it will be. This New Earth will be so far beyond our wildest imaginations and expectations. We will not only experience unconditional love, but will create physical life with it. For that reason, our physical body also is completely rebuilt to a crystalline structure to be able to hold the light in the physical. It needs a lot of energy and building material for it. We experience weirdest cravings and body symptoms. Long term vegans or raw fooders might feel the need to eat animal protein and in general there can be a hightened craving for sweets and starchy  as well as grounding foods (bread, potatoes, carrots, peanuts…) Also here, it is recommendable to not panic and not overanalyze or interpret. (Of course, if you feel the need to go and see a doctor to get some peace of mind, please do)

“New Earth will be so far beyond our wildest imaginations and expectations. We will not only experience unconditional love, but will create physical life with it.”

Many of us thought that 999 must be it: “From that date on, I will be happy, whole and complete.” Not the case? Well, the date is just a portal to complete things. It will be open through almost the whole of September for us to do the work and get things to completion. So please do not fool yourself and just leave it up to numerology and the planets. You have to do your work and show your willingness to surrender and accept whatever comes along. It is you to make use of the energetic portal, nobody will drag you through it. The September energies are about letting go of all the attachments, doubts and questions you ever had and trusting that things will work out the way they should. Our little mind cannot imagine anyways how the new world will look like, as its learned templates about relationships, business, health etc. will not fit into these new energy patterns. Thankfully, the September energies are helping us to reach that state of surrender, because they really are wearing us out.  And time is speeding up. We feel like we hardly get anything done anymore and time just passes so quickly. The lunar eclipse on September 16 will give us another huge energetic push, and we can use it to accelerate and release things through the last phase of Mercury Retrograde (ending on September 22). Embrace, don’t fight. We have been fighting and struggling long enough. It is time to trust and if you feel deep down inside of you – you can feel this truth so deeply, that there is no room for doubt. Learn, that emotions are nothing else but a release action of your system for energies that do not belong there. No need to analyze or interpret them. Just let them pass through.

All of our experiences so far were just an ascension boot camp. To prepare us for what is to come. To be able to hold the light within our bodies and to teach others to reach the same level of understanding and frequency. We are writing history while being in a living body. We are going through human evolution while being alive. What a privilege that is to not only experience it but actively contribute to creating the new. Thank you all for being in this together. We can do this. We are one!

By Vera Ingeborg

The Wake Up Experience

So often we hear about lightworkers, specially twin flames, being here to transmute energies and raising the frequency of the planet to help humanity ascend. In the article “Why feeling like Crap is an essential Part of Lightwork” we had a closer look into the Universal energetic dynamics at play and why there is no way around the pain we experience. Nevertheless, there are a lot of good methods to ease the process of transmutation and to get back into balance again. This process is like a boot camp to prepare you for the mission you came here for: Helping humanity and planet earth to ascend. It is not for the fainted heart and not a walk in the park. But there are many helpful tools to make it as smooth as possible and learn how to be an alchemist – because that is what energy transmutation is all about. And: The rewards are real! Doing the work is so worth it. Living in 5D is living in paradise on earth. It is beyond anything we could imagine when we are still caught up in the 3D matrix.

 

The whole ascension process does not have the goal to keep us in pain. It is a deep cleansing process to free us from old belief systems, fears and pain. It is meant to spark us, motivate us to heal and go for our hearts desires and dreams. We are to become a true free spirit, our true authentic self. What we will become after the transformation goes beyond our wildest imaginations! When we are living fully anchored in 5D, we live in a place of deep inner peace, harmony , oneness, community and unconditional love. We are the forerunners to show others the way. Therefore, everything that is not serving us for this goal is stripped off of us now. All the 3D stuff we got so used to! And that can hurt as hell. That being said, here are some helpful tips to navigate your own awakening journey and move forward as quickly as possible. And please: Don’t be upset over alleged setbacks. You are always moving upwards, although it might sometimes feel like being thrown back to zero. It is not the case. See it as taking a step backwards to reintegrate, recalibrate and to prepare for the next big leap forward.

 

1) Be grateful

First of all, tell yourself again and again, that THIS IS HAPPENING FOR A REASON. See the bigger picture and start expressing your gratitude for everything that happens for you, the good and the seemingly hurtful or bad things. Nothing happens to you, everything happens for you. Be grateful especially to those people that hurt you the most on a human level. They are the ones that love you the most on a soul level. They push your buttons to show you where you still carry wounds and where healing is needed. They show you what blocks you from ascending. In the beginning, you might not believe it, but just keep going.

“Those people that hurt you the most on a human level are those that love you the most on a soul level.”

It takes some time to reprogram our software from fear to love. A good trick for energy transmutation is having two journals: A (low frequency) ego journal and a (high frequency) love journal. When you are upset, give your ego all the space to judge, blame, cuss, and spit all the anger out onto paper. Once it is done, take some deep breaths and then re-read the ego/victim story. Find the points in the story you can be grateful for. What does that situation show you or teach you about yourself? What wounds does it show you that still need healing? Who did you meet that you might not have met because of the situation? Then, take your love journal and re-write the story into a story of gratitude. After you are done – burn the ego journal pages. You don’t want to read that low-frequency stuff again. Of course – you can re-read your high frequency soul journal as often as you like. It will help you to stay in higher vibes.

You can also use a gratitude app to put down everything you are grateful for and thank the people involved and the Universe for the experiences and lessons. Especially the allegedly shitty moments are those that deserve the most gratitude energy, because those are carrying the biggest potential for growth and transformation. Recognize them as chaotic integration phases that are very necessary to get you to a higher level. That is something we even learn in classic Change Management: A system can only be changed when it goes into chaos first. A rigid structure can never be transformed – no matter if you look into physics, biology or chemistry… that law is always the same. By rewriting our ego anger, resentment and fear story into one of gratitude, forgiveness, fun and love, we are transmuting the low frequency to a higher one.

 

2) Disidentify with your Ego

Our ego sits exactly between the mental and the emotional body and creates a lot of chaos with our thoughts and feelings.  It is a master in leading our mind away from the NOW, projecting fears that we experienced in the past into the future. We are caught up in “should have, could have, if I would have” thoughts and are coming up with scenarios what could all happen and interpreting and judging actions of other persons or our own. We blame ourselves, we blame others, we blame the Universe. Our ego has got us so wrapped up in fear patterns that we are unable to see the bigger picture and love that is trying to shine through. We are too blind to see that all of this is perfectly orchestrated and is happening for a purpose. That is why it is so important to calm down our little 24/7 chatter box in our head and teach our ego where its rightful place is. It was always meant to be an advisor and only protect us from real life danger (when we could be eaten by a lion for example). Then of course, a fight of flight response is not only helpful but necessary. But our ego is so overtrained by the news, marketing, education, politics etc, that it causes a fight or flight response all the time, pretending we are in life danger, no matter if we have a misunderstanding with our partner or parents, a performance review talk with our boss etc. That is unnatural behaviour and our ego is actually supposed to be quiet most of the time. So how do we get it back to its natural behaviour?

“We are so used to identify with our thoughts, that we do not even think of the possibility that those could be an illusion.”

We are so used to identify with our thoughts (and also our emotions, but we come to that later), that we do not even think of the possibility that those could be an illusion. We ignore the possibility, that there might be a reality outside of our thinking patterns. That also happens for spiritually very advanced people. The spiritual ego is hard to detect and can be a real big block in our ascension. “I know how it works. My method and knowledge is the only truth. I have been on this path for so long, I don’t need any support or feedback.” Those are just a couple of examples how you can detect the spiritual ego at play.

When still in ego mode, we are blaming, we are judging, we are chasing, we are fighting… because we act out of fear. Thus, it is really important to reprogram our mind and teach it that WE ARE NOT OUR THOUGHTS. To do this, every time you catch yourself in thought spirals, take a step back and observe yourself. Observe your ego. See it as this little child that is afraid to die. So love it, thank it for just wanting to protect you, tell it that it is not necessary though. It can help to give your ego a name when you talk to it. That helps to disidentify with it.

Ask your ego two questions when panicking:

• Am I or someone else dying because of this?
• Does the planet stop turning because of this?

The answer is no? Tell your ego that there is no need to be protective right now as there is no life danger and send it back to sleep. You can say something like: “See it is not necessary to protect me right now. Sit back, relax and go on a long vacation. You have been working so hard for such a long time, you really deserve a break!”

It will fight hard to stay in the lead and shoot all fears it has got onto you. Stay calm. Caress your ego when it freaks out, tell it that everything is okay and secure. Tell it that you hear its advice and are thankful for it, but that it is just not capable to see the fuller picture. Tell it that you will therefore not take the advice and follow your heart, but that this does not change your love for your ego and that you will not abandon it but help it to grow. You will have to do that very often in the beginning, because the ego does not want to lose its power. Don’t give up. It will get less and less aggressive. If you show it your love, tell it how much more you can be together with a fusion of heart and mind, it will start to trust your heart and step by step will surrender.

Another very helpful approach is to practice being in the NOW. Meditation is something that can be very helpful. Integrate it as a daily habit and start practicing being in the NOW. That is hard! You will realize even more, how the mind jumps from past to future constantly. Learn to watch these thoughts flying by without interpreting them or clinging on to them. Tell yourself: Those are just thoughts passing by, it is only energy. They are not me, they do not define who I am. Meditation does not necessarily mean to sit like a Buddha for hours and make ohhmming sounds. All it means is to find a way how to be in the NOW and experience oneness and inner peace in a worry free zone. You can have that feeling and the connection to the collective consciousness anywhere. Find out what is best for you. Nature, running, surfing, skating, skiing, hiking, painting, playing music…. To come into the NOW: Focus on your senses. Feel, smell, touch, taste, hear, see what is going on in the moment. In these moments, thoughts cannot exist. All you can do is feel a moment, not think it.. Once your ego surrendered, you become the free spirit your supposed to be, and your mind becomes a powerful creator. Your thoughts are the basis for manifestation. If you think fearful thoughts, you create a fearful reality. When your thoughts come from a place of love, you create more and more love for you and around you.

 

3) Forgive Yourself and Others

 This, for many is the hardest part to do. Because our ego loves to blame and judge others and ourselves to make them or us feel miserable, unworthy. It keeps us in a victim role. Often, we do not even realize it, because we are so stuck in our old belief patterns based on human ethics and morale. “This is just not the way one should behave. Friends don’t do that to each other. If he or she would truly love me… “. Just some examples to help you detect whether you are still in ego/victim mode. These sentences are full of conditional thinking. Those are sentences of conditional love. To reach unconditional love, we have to leave the human level and go onto the soul level.

“To reach unconditional love, we have to leave the human level and go onto the soul level”. 

Classic forgiveness work does not go there. It stays on the human level. We might understand the situation of the other person better and why they acted that way. But it still f*cking hurts. Forgiveness becomes effective, when we add gratitude into the equation. Gratitude for the lessons we learn. For the growth opportunities we receive.

That means to accept that there is a higher purpose and bigger meaning behind everything we experience and that our soul chose these situations to expand our consciousness and grow. A wonderful method to do so isRadical forgiveness by Colin Tipping. He has a lot of information and free tools on his website. It is a great method to transmute energies from low to high frequencies quickly.

 

4) Accept, embrace and let go

The second body that needs healing is the emotional body. It hosts our female aspects, the feeling side. This is where we get into the hard stuff. This is where the real boot camp starts. Here, we have to face our deepest fears and hurts. We have to be brave, and it is not much fun to experience all the hurt and all the past wounds we had buried so deeply and locked away forever as we thought. But, if we want to ascend and live in the 5^th dimension, locking away is not an option anymore. We are presented with everything that still needs healing to be able to move into the higher frequencies of 5D. How do we handle that?

When pain comes up, the most important rule is: Don’t fight it, don’t blame anyone or yourself but just accept this as a necessary part of your healing and be grateful for the release. This will transmute the low fear frequencies into high love frequencies quickly. Don’t identify with it. WE ARE NOT OUR EMOTIONS, these are just energies we are experiencing. They do not define who we are. So accept them, embrace them and then let them go. And that is done by acting out the emotion. If you feel sad, cry, if you feel angry scream and hit a pillow, go running etc. whatever helps you to get it out of your system. Follow what your body and system wants you to do and feels like doing in that moment. You are guided perfectly – also in dealing with the pain. In those challenging and painful situations, tell yourself, that this too shall pass.

 

5) Heal your Inner Child

The inner child is the wounded, abandoned and hurt part within ourselves that recalls those bad memories and delivers the “energetic software” to our ego with the protection strategy we once came up with to avoid pain or punishment. This part of us is fearful and sabotaging us as an adult. Working with the inner child is often not successful because our adult self is supposed to take over responsibility and give our inner child what it would have needed in the past. Our grown up self often is in such a bad place, that we do not want to take over any responsibility because we do not feel capable. On the other hand our inner child just looks at our grown up self and is kind of saying: “What, this person is supposed to take care of me and I am supposed to trust him or her? Look at him/her! He/She’s a mess! No thanks… I am better off alone with my learned protective strategies…”.

In addition to that, when people work with their inner child, they often forget that there is not only one version but five versions that have different topics according to the state of evolution in growing up: The infant, the toddler, the pre-schooler, the schooler and the young adolescent. To successfully heal the inner child, we need to work through all of them and reclaim all of them to come to a complete healing of the past and rewriting the story. It is recommended to seek support for inner child healing. A neutral person can help to guide and will make sure that neither the adult nor the inner child is sabotaging the process.

 

6) Redirect the Energies and find Joy

When you are a little more used to the emotional breakouts and not as overwhelmed anymore, you can start to redirect these energies and transform them. This can be arts, journaling, supporting others, dancing, sports, …whatever you like to spend your time with. This is the first step into the direction of finding joy again. Step by step add more things that you enjoy. What makes your heart sing? When do you forget space and time? Traveling, singing, dancing, star gazing, hiking, knitting, painting… Discover what is right for you. Ask your inner child what you truly enjoy and let it come out to play. Discover playfulness. It is very important for us to find joy again and come into the NOW. This will help to even out the emotional break downs. Step by step, you will lift your frequency by adding more joy. The higher our frequency gets, the less space for low frequencies of fear based emotions such as guilt, shame, sadness, anger etc. The darkness within us will be absorbed by our light.

 

7) Love Yourself and treat Yourself well

Even when in emotional turmoil, always treat yourself the way you would want to be treated by a caring friend. Take good care of yourself, make yourself a cup of tea, buy yourself some flowers, light candles for you, spoil yourself with a massage, watch a funny movie and so on. Laughter and humour can help immensely. Look down on your 3D self, taking a 5D perspective and smile about the programming and the struggles they cause. See it like watching your own “Truman Show”. A big lesson to learn for us is to enjoy time on our own and getting rid of feelings of loneliness. This is a giant step into direction of self-love.

Another wonderful tool for self-love is mirror work. Sit in front of the mirror and look yourself into the eyes. See the beauty and wisdom reflecting back at you. Tell yourself in the mirror “I love you”. “You are beautiful just the way you are”. “You are perfect”. These are just examples for affirmations. Come up with what fits for you. It might take a bit until you start believing yourself. Unfortunately we are all misprogrammed through all the beauty and fashion magazines, telling us what beauty supposedly is. Learn to say “fuck that” and keep telling yourself how beautiful you are.

 

8) Appreciate your Body

Our physical body is the densest part to heal. Our physical body is like the external drive of a computer where all the old emotions are stored that we suppressed and did not release. Additionally, the physical body is changing from a carbon based to a crystalline structure to be able to handle the much higher 5D New Earth frequencies on a permanent level. During this process, we experience all kinds of very uncomfortable ascension symptoms.

In addition to that, we struggle with our physical body, because it is not the way we want it to be. We think we are too slim, too fat, we don’t like the shape of our nose, of our eyes, we have too much or too little hair etc. So what to do about that?

Again, mirror work is a very good exercise. Stand in front of the mirror and start thanking your body and all the organs and parts. Appreciate what they do for you every day. Your body is your vehicle and lets you experience life. It lets you feel, smell, touch, hear, sense, walk, breathe… There are so many things our body does for us, we take for granted. Processing and digesting food, moving, keeping our heart beating, transport vitamins, amino acids etc to the right places needed and cleansing out substances that are not good for us. Very often. we prefer to ignore its warning sigs and blame it instead. It just lovingly wants us to know when it is time to take a break and rest. So appreciate the pain as well, watch it and find out what it wants to tell you. Again, be aware that our idea of beauty and a perfect body is shaped by social programming. Recognize that this is just an illusion and tell your body how much you love it.

“A healthy nutrition plays a vital part in our ascension process”

A healthy nutrition plays a vital part in our ascension process. The energies coming in are extremely tough on the adrenal glands and the thyroid. Food that does not resonate with these frequencies can tax the system further. Low vibrating, dead and processed food can hurt our body very much. Red meat, junk food, sugar, white flour, alcohol, dairy products and additives are just a couple of examples that are damaging our system during the awakening process quite heavily and can even cause serious addictions and illnesses. You will realize that your cravings change throughout the ascension process. You might need more or less food – depending on the energetic activities around you. Say good bye to the idea you have to eat three times a day. Only eat when you feel like it. Your body is very sensitive during the awakening phase. Even green tea or herbal teas with too many different substances in it can make the system go berserk. Start treating your body with healthy food. Enjoy the taste of a freshly prepared meal with love. Make it a special event and be grateful for the healthy meal you are enjoying. When it comes to food, start to observe what makes you feel alive and what makes you rather tired. We are all different and not everyone can handle the same foods. Learn what your individual system needs. Just follow your cravings. During ascension, we can feel like being pregnant and crave the most awkward things. And we are pregnant… with our new authentic selves to be reborn :-). When you crave weird things, make it as healthy as possible. Chocolate: Go for dark chocolate possibly with coconut or rice sugar instead of white sugar and milk. Pizza? There are wholegrain and nut cheese alternatives. Be careful with soy. It has a high estrogenic effect and can bring the body even more out of balance. Lemon Water throughout the day, Apple vinegar (one spoon in the morning undiluted) and Himalayan pink salt (to season your food or in your lemon water) can be real life-savers when going through emotional and physical pain, as it has a very calming and cleansing effect. The good thing is: After your body has transformed, you can eat what you want – your body will not take in any poisoning stuff anymore. You become immune.

“After your body has transformed completely, you will become immune to poisoning ingredients.”

Give your body what it was actually invented for. Movement! It was not made for sitting 10 hours in front of a computer or on a couch. Yes, there are times we need to just lie and recalibrate. And that is perfectly fine. Also here, follow what your body asks for. Movement does not mean you have to become a marathon runner, a walk in the park and lying on the grass to recalibrate improves your situation quickly. In times you feel more energy, go doing what you love. Running, cycling, dancing, yoga… this will keep your system healthy, helps to unblock stuck energy and release it. It is very likely that you will experience an emotional breakout while moving your body. Again: Be thankful for the release and act it out.

Another big body related issue we all have to deal with is the programming of sex and nakedness being something dirty and shameful. We feel we don’t deserve to enjoy our nakedness and finding pleasure in sex. Also here, a reprogramming is necessary. Again, the mirror is of great help. Do the same exercise as above, but this time naked. Appreciate every bit of your body and appreciate your naked self. Start loving yourself and your body, stroking it softly. Snuggle into yourself. Be brave and explore without any shame.

“Learn that masturbation is something beautiful and natural to experience and can help to cleanse your whole energetic system from blockages”.

Learn that masturbation is something beautiful and natural to experience and can help to cleanse our whole energy system from blockages. Sexual energies are very sacred and are actually the creator energy directly from Source. It is time to find back to this powerful energy and to use it for our ability to create, manifest and to heal this planet. This is the ultimate physical form of self-love. Very often, you will experience an energetic release e.g. through crying while masturbating. This is a great way of transmuting energies quickly into higher frequencies. Be thankful for it.

Our body is a miracle. And we can steer and create it very well. Nothing is set in stone. We are not a slave of our genes, we are the master of it. If you want to find out more about how much you can influence the functioning and well-being of your physical body, check out the amazing research and work in “Epigenetics” of Bruce Lipton.

 

9) Sound Healing

In our awakening process, we often realize that we cannot listen to certain music anymore that we used to love. That is because we become oversensitive to these frequencies. As our own frequency rises, we do not resonate with certain music tunes anymore.

Music expresses the unseen rhythm and energies of the universe. Music is vibration put into sound so we can hear and feel it. Music and sound can change vibes and therefore can be a major support in changing vibrational patterns. It can help to push old fears and energies to the surface for healing. Most of the music produced for the masses today is recorded on 440 Hz, which is a frequency in disharmony with the natural frequency on this planet and creates a constant disharmony with our body. 440 Hz supports the left brain (rational thinking, logic) while 432 Hz is opening the right brain (intuition, feeling). The introduction of 440 Hz as concert standard goes back into Nazi times. Without wanting to open up a conspiracy discussion, it was certainly useful to the rulers at this time for people to be in their left brain functions.

While 432 Hz music in general has a very calming effect and is perfect for relaxing and grounding – as it is in line with the natural frequency, music in 528 Hz is the heightened frequency of the heartbeat of the higher dimensions and of unconditional love. 528 Hz music is perfect to bring up old pain to surface to release it. Once you have cleared everything out, 528 Hz music is supporting to connect to the higher dimensions and to unconditional love.

 

10) Keep your Power

The awakening process can be very confusing, upsetting and painful. This leads us to have more questions than answers and our logical brain and ego wants answers. Fast. It is more than tempting to ask others for advice, get psychic readings to find out more about our situation and the next steps we should take. There is one big issue with that though: We are giving our power away to others. We make ourselves dependent again.Awakening is about self-love and trusting our own abilities. It is only our ego searching for these answers outside. Through our heart, we are connected to collective consciousness, to Source, the Universe, God, whatever you want to call this higher intelligence we are all part of. To truly become enlightened and awakened, you have to go within, find your own light, your own truth. The only guru you need is you. 

Of course – that does not mean to make it on your own and not reaching out at all. It is important to connect and share with others to realize you are not alone and to find your own path and your tribe. Nevertheless, a good teacher/guide only gives you the tools, not the solution. He or she asks the right questions and is not giving the answers.

 

11) Sharing

Share your love, your experiences, your concerns with other likeminded people. Find your tribe that gets you and vice versa. Sharing is a wonderful way of redirecting energies into something useful. Even smallest things like thanking a waiter or holding someone the door will change the energy quickly.

 

12) Grounding and Rebalancing in Nature

Nature is healing. That is where we come from. We have more in common with nature than we think. Because we all consist mainly of water. So does nature. And water has a wonderful characteristic. It communicates and transports information quickly. The smaller amount of water adapts to the larger amount of water. So when we are walking barefoot through grass or a forest, when we hug trees, we take a swim or just put our feet into natural water, we are surrounded with the natural frequency. Which is carried as data by the water in the grass, the trees, the lakes, the sea, the rivers etc.

When our system and cells are in chaos because we had a bad day, a fight, an emotional breakout, spiralling thoughts etc. getting in touch with nature/water rebalances us quickly into the natural frequency, as we as the smaller part of water adapt to the bigger one. Second best option: Take a seasalt bath at home, or program the water before bathing in it with 432 Hz sounds. Just let a song play (there are plenty on youtube and spotify) in the bathroom, before you enter the bathtub.

 

13) Watch Children

We can learn so much from our children. Just watch them play. They are completely in the NOW and not worrying about yesterday or tomorrow. Maybe you are even brave enough to play yourself. Sit in a swing, build a sandcastle or play boyscouts and go exploring…

 

14) Don’t try, allow

No matter what you do – practice to let go of control and let things unfold. Instead of making concrete plans, just know what you want. The universe will take care of the “how”. Go with the flow and trust that you will get what you wish for or something better.

 

15) Find Correlations and get to know your System

In general, on all healing levels, always look for correlations. What makes you think, feel, or experience body symptoms or emotions in a certain way. Observe your environment and what is going on with other people around you or on the planet or in the Universe. You might find out, that the fatigue you are experiencing comes from too many people around you or an EMF field close by. Or your nervousness always starts after having eaten a certain food. Your sudden emotional break out might be caused by earthquakes or solar flares. Finding these correlations takes the drama out of the equation and you can appreciate your body as a radar system that gives you clues about the energies around you.

“All these healing exercises ultimately have one goal. To lead you back to self-love and freedom.”

All these healing exercises ultimately have one goal. To lead you back to self-love and freedom. The first important switch we have to flip is from fear to love. The second important switch is to focus on our own healing and mission, away from external influences. You are all that counts. That way, you will find your true and authentic self. And with it, the answer to the question, who you truly are and what you came here for.

BY Vera Ingeborg
The Wake Up Experience

It can be difficult to be fully present in your own life and focus on your own growth and spiritual change, if you are too emotionally involved with your twin during some sort of separation or other testing times. It is very difficult for a human being who knows his / her twin as a physical human being to let go of being too emotionally attached to him / her, simply because as a human being it is hard not to be too spiritually, emotionally, and physically attracted to ones own twin soul. When we focus too much on another person in our lives who is important to us, we focus less on ourselves and this person becomes the centre of our lives. Sooner or later this ”other-focus” gets in the way of ones own soul liberation and spiritual growth process. One difficult step is necessary and that is as much as it is possible you must try to detach yourself emotionally, so that being involved with the other person doesn’t keep you from growing spiritually on your own. Detachment means that you trust your twin soul to be strong enough to handle his / her own growth without your emotional interference Detachment also means that you trust the higher powers enough to know that you cannot be responsible for other people, so you let go of trying to control other people emotionally or otherwise. Detachment is a tough lesson to learn, because as human beings we are used to being driven by emotions in our relationships. We cannot control who we love or how we feel, but feeling very strongly for another person can be a ”detour” when it comes to ones own growth, because we get to focus on the other person. We try to change the other person where it is only ourselves that we can change. For twin soul couples detachment is necessary, but difficult to learn because twin souls are so much part of each other energetically. Detachment is a healthy necessary step, because as you take your mind off the other person and focus on yourself instead, you give both yourself and the other person the chance and space to grow spiritually and as human beings.~Inspired Awareness..

Becoming the Chaser is not something that a twin partner intentionally does… It happens naturally… The inner ‘knowing’ and awareness of the twin flame connection is what drives the Chaser along.

Women are usually more emotionally sensitive than men… That’s what often makes the woman in the twin flame relationship understand the true nature of it before the man does.

Men are also conditioned (since the caveman era, when they had to hunt for survival) to hide their emotions and feelings… that makes them suppress the inner ‘knowingness’, consciously or subconsciously, with or without their own knowledge…

For this reason, The Twin Flame Chaser is usually the woman.
[That does not mean that a man can not be in this position, It ultimately depends on the life plan.]

To make things simpler to understand, we’ll assume that the Chaser is the woman.

Being highly sensitive, The Chaser can ‘feel’ the depth of this relationship and knows that it is somehow special… This feeling is there even if she doesn’t consciously know what it is all about…
Now, When the other Twin flames suddenly tried to escape or run away,

Two things happen to the Chaser.

One – She is deeply hurt and afraid of losing her partner.

The intensity and the depth of love that she feels for the twin flame is more than anything else that she has probably ever felt. When the Runner just runs away without even a warning, she gets a huge emotional shock… much more than she can handle.
This makes her act ‘crazy’ sometimes. She will, at this point, do almost anything to get the Runner back…

The emotional pain of the Chaser is intensified even more by the memories or residue of the many previous lives in which she had lost him.
All the pain and suffering from all of those lives is stirred up and comes back to the surface when the Runner runs away…

Two – She knows there is some deeper meaning to this relationship and feels that the two of them ‘Should be together’ to make things alright.

She has a feeling deep inside that everything will be okay… they should just be together (which is true).
She might not be explain this to the Runner or to anyone else but strongly feels it.

And because of these reasons,
She tries to ‘Chase’ the Runner.
To get him back, no matter how.

The Chaser herself might be very confused at this stage, she might not even be able to understand whats happening to her,
all she knows is that she cant afford to lose the Runner, no matter what.

The Chasing, however, only pushes the Runner further away.
Then comes a point when she shatters completely (emotionally).
The pain of having the runner run can be literally mind numbing.

Now That’s where God’s magic begins…
She tries to look up information just to find out what was it that is happening to her. It is not just a normal relationship, she knows that for sure.
And that’s when the Spiritual reality reveals itself to her.
That’s when she understands the sacredness of this relationship…
and all of this ultimately leads to her Enlightenment.

Then comes the Waiting time. That is when the ‘Chaser’ is enlightened and the Runner is still running…
This can again be a very hard time for the Chaser.

Ultimately, once the phase is over, the runner does return, and that’s when the Grand Reunion happens smile emoticon

Advice For Twin Flame Chaser

If you’ve read about ‘The Chaser’ and figured that its you, here is some advice…

Know that your partner WILL Return…
With all that you are going through, knowing that the runner will return is enough to ease half the pain.
Twin flames are ever connected by the eternal sacred bond that never breaks.
They are literally created to be with each other. Nothing can take them away from each other.

Understand that your partner will come back once they are ready for the intensity of this relationship.

Let them take their time, pushing or chasing is not of much use.

Avoid ‘Chasing’ him/her
The runner runs because they are afraid of the intensity of the relationship at some level.
Chasing him/her at this point only makes them run more.
Give them some time, and know that they will come when they are ready.

Know that the universe in helping you
Being in the ‘Chaser’ position can be hard. You might feel lonely and helpless. DONT.

The universe plays its magic in bringing twin flames together.
Know that you are supported by all divine beings in someway… whether you know it or not.
Doing too much at a human level is not required to get your twin flame back… just remain calm and you’ll see that everything takes care of itself (it might take some time, but trust me it will happen… just be patient)

Believe In Yourself
During this phase, there is often a lot of confusion.
Your mind does not agree with what your heart tells you… And If you try sharing it with someone else they will probably tell you you’ve simply ‘lost it’… These people usually are not aware of this deep spiritual reality and give you ‘practical’ advice which doesn’t work for a twin flame relationship…

Understand that what is happening to you is not unusual… and you are perfectly all right.
Just Believe in yourself and follow your heart… and everything will be okay

Understand spirituality
The more you understand the spiritual reality, the more sense everything will start to make.
The relationship between Twin flames is basically spiritual… You’ll understand whats going on in the relationship the more you explore spirituality.

And If you’re comfortable with it, use the Violet Flame to balance your karma… this (or any other meditation) also helps calm the mind which is required during this confusing and difficult phase.

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Is He/She My Twin Flame, soul mate, or karmic partner?
Why Did We Separate?
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Is My Twin Flame Ready To Reunite?
What Lessons Need To Be Learned?
Will I Meet My Twin Flame In This Life?
Are There Any Blockages That Are Keeping Us Apart?
What Spiritual or Karmic Issues Need To Be Resolved?
Are They Experiencing The Same Thoughts and feelings as I am?
How Can I Improve Our Connection And Our Relationship?
Am I Doing Something That Prevents My Twin Flame Reunion?
I Met My Twin Flame But We Are Married To Other People, How Does This Affect Our Soul Connection?
I Have Reunited With My Twin Flame, Are We On The Right Path?
Do We Need Emotional or Spiritual Healing?

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YES! SHE TRULY IS A TWIN FLAME LOVE GUIDE! what a great conversation. Gina knew immediately what was going on and was able to guide me to my next step .I had no idea my heart chakra was blocked and she explained the ways I could unblock it. she was to the point and very honest . I have homework to do for sure but i know that i will now be able to set the wheels in motion. Gina really does know her stuff and I must say you should think about changing your name to twin flame guru. you are truly amazing and i will be calling back for coaching. thanks a million. I feel great after this call. xoxo Member005778

As a Tarot reader for almost 40 years, I have learned to get a secound opinion whenever the matter in emotionally charged. As an reader I can assure you that Gina reading for me was extremely accurate and offered me valuable insights I just wasn't getting myself. Fabulous reading!
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Thank you so so much, everything you said was so healing for me on an inner deep level..your help means so much to me !! I look forward to telling you how things are going on the future !! SpiritHealerVictoria

Amazing email reading! Thanks Gina for all your guidance! There are really no words for how you have helped my situation. The only way to explain it is that you have opened up libraries of books inside of me that haven't been opened for a long time. You have opened my eyes! Please reach out to her if you are seeking guidance on your TF journey! Member078206

very interesting insight and input, verified questions I had without knowing other info, a real psychic! GREAT michaelm

I absolutely loved Gina and felt she helped me immensely understanding the Twin Flame Love concept. I was guided to her and am so thankful I found her.....I was going through a very difficult period where nothing made sense to me and she helped me understand my situation and also helped to bring balance back into my life. Member98890417

Gina is a god sent. She really becomes a friend that provides you with guidance and such clarity that you leave the conversation knowing you are on the right path. Thank you unlost5556

Some major energetic shifts have been occurring over the last few weeks, and it looks like things are regaining balance in my life. Had it not been for Gina, I would not have been able to uncover the long-forgotten blockages that have been causing all the trouble in the first place, she is simply awesome! Zorro0915

i am so grateful and thankful to have found you! you have made me feel better about this process and you knew all about my twinflame situation before I even explained! will ttys, blessings :) Fiori87

Phone or Chat Readings

For every call or chat that lasts 10 minutes or more you will receive:

10 minute call/chat = 3 free minutes

15 minute call/chat = 4 free minutes

20 minute call/chat = 5 free minutes

Email Readings
One question reading....$10.00
Two question reading....$15.00
Three question reading...$20.00

Questions to Consider for your Reading:

Is He/She My Twin Flame, soul mate, or karmic partner?
Why Did We Separate?
Why were we brought together in this lifetime?
Is My Twin Flame Ready To Reunite?
What Lessons Need To Be Learned?
Will I Meet My Twin Flame In This Life?
Are There Any Blockages That Are Keeping Us Apart?
What Spiritual or Karmic Issues Need To Be Resolved?
Are They Experiencing The Same Thoughts and feelings as I am?
How Can I Improve Our Connection And Our Relationship?
Am I Doing Something That Prevents My Twin Flame Reunion?
I Met My Twin Flame But We Are Married To Other People, How Does This Affect Our Soul Connection?
I Have Reunited With My Twin Flame, Are We On The Right Path?
Do We Need Emotional or Spiritual Healing?

To receive an email reading message me your question(s) your name and DOB and the name and DOB of the person you are asking about (if applicable) I will send you a detailed response for question. The free minutes you receive can be used for either phone or chat conversations to discuss your reading further or if you have any additional questions..

Below are some recent feedback comments from other clients:

YES! SHE TRULY IS A TWIN FLAME LOVE GUIDE! what a great conversation. Gina knew immediately what was going on and was able to guide me to my next step .I had no idea my heart chakra was blocked and she explained the ways I could unblock it. she was to the point and very honest . I have homework to do for sure but i know that i will now be able to set the wheels in motion. Gina really does know her stuff and I must say you should think about changing your name to twin flame guru. you are truly amazing and i will be calling back for coaching. thanks a million. I feel great after this call. xoxo Member005778

As a Tarot reader for almost 40 years, I have learned to get a secound opinion whenever the matter in emotionally charged. As an reader I can assure you that Gina reading for me was extremely accurate and offered me valuable insights I just wasn't getting myself. Fabulous reading!
Member75981265

Thank you so so much, everything you said was so healing for me on an inner deep level..your help means so much to me !! I look forward to telling you how things are going on the future !! SpiritHealerVictoria

Amazing email reading! Thanks Gina for all your guidance! There are really no words for how you have helped my situation. The only way to explain it is that you have opened up libraries of books inside of me that haven't been opened for a long time. You have opened my eyes! Please reach out to her if you are seeking guidance on your TF journey! Member078206

very interesting insight and input, verified questions I had without knowing other info, a real psychic! GREAT michaelm

I absolutely loved Gina and felt she helped me immensely understanding the Twin Flame Love concept. I was guided to her and am so thankful I found her.....I was going through a very difficult period where nothing made sense to me and she helped me understand my situation and also helped to bring balance back into my life. Member98890417

Gina is a god sent. She really becomes a friend that provides you with guidance and such clarity that you leave the conversation knowing you are on the right path. Thank you unlost5556

Some major energetic shifts have been occurring over the last few weeks, and it looks like things are regaining balance in my life. Had it not been for Gina, I would not have been able to uncover the long-forgotten blockages that have been causing all the trouble in the first place, she is simply awesome! Zorro0915

i am so grateful and thankful to have found you! you have made me feel better about this process and you knew all about my twinflame situation before I even explained! will ttys, blessings :) Fiori87

In the beginning of all time, when the first soul and soul groups were birthed, a lot of these new souls that were born decided to take on Androgynous form… thus the male and female in one body…..

As a soul consists of pure energy, and thus within one soul, there are a million shards or pieces of soul, in the form of particles of energy, the male and female, positively and negatively charged particles thus form, what one would see or visualize as a SPIRALLING FORM OF ENERGY, at its most stretched part, forming a concentric circle…. This, then when in Androgynous form…

At one stage in the evolution of intelligent life, and thus the evolution of what one can term a human-like form, a lot of souls, wanted to experience life, in the more male aspect of form and female aspects of form. Thus a certain number of souls, volunteered to take on a solely male form to experience the more masculine side of life and its other half the more female side of life…..

The Divine Source itself has got two definite sides: the Male aspect and the Female Aspect and both as DISTINCT FORMS of the same entity or life expression. Creation was birthed in the first act of the coming together of these two and from the seed planted within the womb of the Divine Mother, all other life forms were created…..

The Androgynous form was mainly taken on by those who SERVE the Divine Source in some way… the Archangels, Angels, Elohim, Cherubim etc. They have no other form, and in this Androgynous form they express BOTH, yet sometimes this then in a more masculine form, like Archangel Michael, or more feminine form, like Archangel Gabriel…

The other life-forms, and with it the human, and those of myriads of galaxies and star systems, decided to take on a distinct masculine form and distinct feminine form. All were created in the LIKENESS of the Divine Source, thus the Father God and Mother God. Yet, now, one is talking of extremely potent and high energies….. expressing themselves in a form that we would recognize as a male and female body type…

During this time the first souls who were ANDROGYNOUS decided that they would ALSO LIKE TO BECOME DISTINCTIVELY MALE AND FEMALE, their SOULS WERE SPLIT IN HALF AND THE SOUL NOW INSTEAD OF TAKING ONE SINGLE BODY, NOW TOOK ON TWO BODIES OR FORMS….

Most of these stemmed from the Angelic and Archangelic Realms and those who vibrate at that frequency. This is something that few people realize…. Within your soul group, you might not HAVE these souls, as they immediately took on the form of either masculine or feminine expressions of the Divine (the younger souls do qualify here.)

Those of the Archangelic and Angelic forms, who took on human-like form, were called the “SHINING or ILLUMINATED ONES”, and they formed a hierarchy quite on their own in the vaster cosmic scale. They are distinct in that these souls emit a very high frequency light and thus, when these two merge, in sexual union (and sacred sexual rites are performed); they then emit immensely powerful rays, which have tremendous power…

However, one has to understand that these souls form a CLUSTER within ONE DISTINCTIVE GROUP of SOULS and they consist of 144 000 souls only. Not more! This was the number that the Divine Source ALLOWED to take on human or human-like forms…..

The other soul groups, consists of SOUL MATES, and thus they are comparable to the TWIN FLAMES, but only at a certain level. Although very much alike and compatible, enhancing each other, they can never reach that potent energy in their union, simply because the vibrational frequency of their souls, is not of the same make-up as the soul group that the ILLUMINATED TWIN FLAMES belong to.

Now, I know that this is confusing…. It is not to say that SOUL MATE cannot be a twin flame and have a beautiful and high vibrational union… simply that it has not got that potency that the TWIN FLAMES from the ILLUMINATED SOUL GROUP HAVE, mainly because they first saw life in the Angelic Realms…

Today, I will be concentrating on the TWIN FLAMES of the ILLUMINATED SOUL GROUP, as they have been involved with this planet from the very beginning, and have returned now, to dance the dance of love and life here, reunite and assist this planet with their union……

The Illuminated Soul Group, mainly originate from Andromeda, Pegasus, Arcturius, and the Pleidas. This is where the first SOUL CLUSTER GROUP of the Illuminated Ones started to work….. When the Earth was first colonized, it was colonized from these Galaxies, and the first continent (remembering there was ONLY ONE CONTINENT at that time) it was the scientists from these galaxies that first colonized this planet…..

When this continent first had trouble with the Web of Light, (after a asteroid hit the planet and threw the whole grid out of balance), the Intergalactic Counsel asked for TWIN FLAMES from the ILLUMINATED SOUL GROUP to volunteer to assist the whole process of healing the Web. Thus the first TWIN FLAMES from Andromeda and Pegasus arrived, and in a specific ritual which was performed by the sexual union, the grid was repaired… (I will not touch on other aspects here… just this)

There are a lot of things involved here… not only the fact that the twins emit such vast frequency light, but it had to be done within a certain environment and with the aid of certain structures and tools…… (My books have more details)….

During the course of the history of this planet, more and more TWIN FLAMES incarnated onto this planet. However, during the great fall into oblivion that this planet has experienced on numerous occasions (Elysium, Lemuria, Atlantis, etc.) twin flames somehow got separated and loaded a lot of karma onto themselves….

They now started to take on distinctive male and female forms in the incarnations, and seemed to repeat the same patterns time and again… In this process the twin became separated from his or her other half and thus has felt rather incomplete at some deep soul level….

At this moment in the history of time a few hundred of these Illuminated Twin Flames have incarnated, for them more than the other twins have loaded a lot of karma onto themselves. Their challenge in this life is to find each other again, and then to work towards balance and equilibrium so that their energies can be reunited again… and then to use these eventually in the way manner… so heal planet earth and the Web of Light…

However, and here is the big challenge… these two will literally push each other’s buttons… as much as the sexual energies and the magnetism between them will pull them together, as much will they take sparks off each other…. in their search to find balance, between the male and female aspects or energies within themselves…

What normally strikes people about these two is how much ALIKE they are… they might look alike and act in ways that mirror each other…. their lives seem to be parallel at some level e.g. both teachers and writers etc. Yet, on the other side of coin, they are total opposites and it will show… One will love the limelight and the other shuns it… One will love money and the other not really be bothered… One with love travelling and one likes to have a nice home base….

When the opposites appear they seem almost as TOTAL opposites and it is here that these two are most challenged to find the ultimate union. The sexual energy between these two is so potent, that it seems like a vast flame of tremendous energy between them…. Yet, this energy has to be tempered by unconditional love and acceptance and giving each other the freedom to BE….

What this union is striving for is WHOLENESS… The WHOLENESS OF THE INDIVIDUAL MALE and WHOLENESS OF THE INDIVIDUAL FEMALE and THEN THE MERGING OF TWO WHOLES INTO ONE… ONLY THEN CAN BALANCE BE FOUND…. So the key here is to FIND BALANCE…..

When one is more than the other, the scales tip too much to the one side and not the other… So they will have a tug-of-war until they reach balance point one more…. Once union has been reached and the flame becomes almost consuming… then they will move away from each other again, so they need to give each other space….

Then the magnetism will pull them back to centre point once more and with this then the same total and utter passionate flame…. These two can never be apart… even if one is on the other end of the world… their souls are so intertwined that they constantly aware of the other…. And their attraction is such that they will always come together, almost in spite of themselves…. So woe to anyone who tries to get between these two… for they will get burnt…. It is not that they consciously seek this…

Often they irritate each other so much that need space to cool down… or simply to find the space within themselves, where they realize their love for the other is such, that no matter how much the other pushes his or her buttons, love here is simply unconditional….

When both allow their hearts to simply open up to love, to feel the vulnerability (for somehow the twin KNOWS you better than you know yourself – after all they ARE your other half)… and to let love flow… then they will always find each other again and with it the Halls of Ecstasy, Bliss and Euphoria open up for them…. In the next few years, the twins will be called to come together – whether they wish it or not… as they have committed their souls reunion to assist the Web of Light of this planet to be healed with their union….

They cannot run away from this commitment and in this they simply will find that all obstacles to their union are removed and that they will be reunited and work AS ONE..

. Those who have already found their Twin will find that the potency of their union is increasing and as this planet experiences the shift in consciousness the Twins will all be working together AS ONE, albeit unconsciously at times, to heal this planet through their union….

~Judith Kusel

Lately, more and more people are asking themselves: What exactly is the twin flame process and how can it be mastered?

When you browse through the internet, you can find plausible explanations, but some aren’t really down to earth. In my experience: The more down to earth the explanation is, the better is the chance to go forward.
Yes sure, the connection between twin flames is made in heaven and goes beyond everything we imagined. Yet, the tasks we have to master in this process are down to earth wounds we suffered and need to heal in order to be one with ourselves again.
In the case of twin flames, you see the “map” that would make you complete perfectly mirrored in the other person.
Your buttons are pushed like never before. A perfect background knowledge in this topic is served by the “wounds of the soul” theory by Lise Bourbeau.
She writes about the fact that every soul is born, to work on different wounds of the soul in order to find back to ones true self.
Since this is no easy task, it takes a really mature soul to face the wounds and heal them.
You can see it easily when you look around our world today. Most people are hiding behind masks and create themselves a life with over-consuming or other replacement-pleasures, just to hide from the pain they once suffered. Their ego has taken control, in order to secure them from their wounds. Only the strong and mature souls begin to recognize the senseless game the ego is playing. They begin to wake up and face the pain which separates them from their true self.
For the exceptionally brave souls, destiny holds a special gift in store. It is orchestrated, that the soul meets his own self in the real world. This part is called twin flame. For explanation: Originally, twin flames are one soul which divided into two, in order to make different experiences in different lifes.
When they are ready, they meet each other in one of their last lifes, to support each other remembering their true self.
Traditionally one of them is more an emotional person, who knows how to deal with the female power, but often has problems with letting go. In “twin flame language” this person is called the “chaser”. The other part is more a mind driven person, who can function perfectly in the male energy, but has a problem dealing with emotions. He is called the “runner”.

The goal for both is to integrate the missing part in themselves.
That’ s why the meeting between twin flames is that explosive, because both parts see the part which would make them complete in the other person.
An unstoppable process is ignited when they meet for the first time!
A relationship between twin flames is only possible, when both parts are healed and have integrated their missing parts within themselves.
It’ s an unbelievable gift to meet your twin flame!
It’ s the most direct mirror in the world you can get and your development as a soul is pushed to a whole other level.
That’ s what makes it so difficult to deal with, because your twin flame triggers your wounds like no one else and challenges us to heal them.
So, what are the wounds of the soul about? The famous author Lise Bourbeau differentiates 5 wounds the soul has suffered, with one mask for each wound, we wear to hide the wound.
It is fascinating that some wounds are typical for the chaser and some are typical for the runner.

Overview of the 5 wounds and their masks:

Typical wounds of the chaser:

Wound of rejection- mask of escape
Wound of abandonment- mask of dependence

Typical wounds of the runner:

Wound of betrayal- mask of control
Wound of humiliation- mask of compliance
Wound of injustice- mask of rigidity

Wound of rejection:

When it comes to the wound of rejection, the person concerned is questioning his right to exist. The pain is so huge, the person creates himself the mask of escape. He tends to withdraw from situations he could be rejected by escaping activly or by pulling out of reality (for example by daydreaming). People who suffer under this wound, tend to not be able to defend or take their place and have very low borders. They often loose a lot of energy, because they tend to melt with others. The “chaser” of the twin flames often sufferes from this wound. Because he has such low borders he is no match for the “runner” who just is seeking control because of his fear of the emotions.
When the wound is healed, the “chaser” stands strong in his borders and his self-esteem. Now the “runner” feels he needs to face his emotions because he looses the control.

Wound of abandonment:
When it comes to the wound of abandonment, the person concerned has had experiences, in which he felt left alone or abandoned. The wound is so deep, the people suffering from it, immediately create the mask of dependence. People with this wound tend to please others all the time and make themselves dependent from others, just to not be abandoned. They also don’t show their borders or even have never build healthy borders. They also tend to melt with others and loose a lot of energy along the way. This wound is also typical for the “chaser” , as they tend to everything just not be left behind by the “runner”. Often, they even take humiliation, to the point where they give up themselves. This situation is used by the “runner” who is taking full control, because of his deep fear of his emotions.
When the wound is healed, healthy borders can be developed and the “runner” needs to face his emotions, because he feels he is loosing control.

Wound of betrayal:

When it comes to the wound of betrayal, the person concerned has had experiences where he felt betrayed or left behind. People with this deep wound soon create the mask of control, trying to hide the wound. People who suffer from this wound tend to live only in their mind and try to control everything, also their feelings. When you deal with people suffering from this wound, you will have a hard time standing your ground. These people literally built up walls around their emotional world. When it comes to twin flames, you can easily rank in the “runner”. Because of this wound, he has built up massive walls. Voluntarily the “runner” would probably never heal this wound. It takes a person, which means so much to him, he is forced to face his emotions and let go of the control.
The “chaser” has the potential to help the “runner” heal his wound, but in order to start the healing process the “chaser” has to be able to show his borders to the “runner”. Now he feels he is loosing control and has to face his emotions.

Wound of humiliation:

When it comes to the wound of humiliation, the person concerned has had experiences where he felt degraded, humiliated and ashamed. Soon the mask of compliance is created to hide from the wound.
The people suffering from this wound also want to control everything, just to avoid a possible humiliation. They tend to play the mother for others, not necessarily because of love, but to make themselves valuable for others and also have the control.
This wound also fits for the “runner” personality, who doesn’t allow himself to get in touch with his emotional world.

Wound of injustice:

When it comes to the wound of injustice, the person concerned has had experiences where he felt deeply mistreeted. He has the feeling not to be respected or not to get what he deserves.
The mask he creates is the mask of rigidity. He tends to be stiff, is not easy to talk to and controls his emotions. In the twin flame constellation, the “runner” tends to suffer from this wound and most of the time is stuck because the pain is deep. Again, the “chaser” can help the “runner” heal the wound by showing him healthy borders. Because the love is so strong, he will face the wound, when he feels your borders.

Conclusion:

This was a short review of the 5 wounds of the soul. I hope that I could show you that each of the twin flames have different wounds and that there is no guilt. The egos just stand in the way, desparately trying to prevent them from possible pain. That’s why at the beginning, a relationship between twin flames is not possible most of the time. The connection is so divine and lightfull, that our shadows just can’t not exist, so our wounds show up. You, the “chaser” have to take the first steps into your healing.
If you do so, you will turn into a person full of self-love, self-esteem and healthy borders.

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Twin Flames Stepping into the Sunrise

"Be the one to delve deeply into your shadow. It doesn't sound like fun I know. But we must all do it if we are truly dedicated to becoming the best possible versions of ourselves, to Ascending and to uniting with our twin flame. Yes, it will be uncomfortable for a while, it will feel strange and be painful. Yes there will be tears, anger, sadness, disappointment and feelings of rejection and abandonment all coming up to be recognised, loved and released. No it won't be easy. There will be times when it all feels like just too much and you will want to throw in the towel and crawl back into your cave.

But recognise how far you have come in realising that the shadow must be faced. For so long, many of us have been running from ourselves because we never realised that we HAVE to face our pain in order to come into the light of peace and happiness within ourselves. We have to free the love that we have locked inside of ourselves. Most people genuinely believe that if they just keep running from it long enough then eventually they will escape all the pain and be rid of it. They aren't running from you to hurt you, they are running from themselves because they have been taught by society that this is the best and most effective way to escape their pain. They've not been shown any other way so they are learning it from scratch.

Be the one to delve deeply into your shadow. Once you shine light on it, it will turn to light. Yes, you feel like a moth to a flame, you are scared of getting burned, of being destroyed by the fire. But it is that very flame of love that kills the ego and illusions. It's painful yes because we have become comfortable in our state of repression, but we cannot transform into light if we don't burn away the dark veils that stand in the way of love's free expression. The phoenix cannot be reborn if there is no fire.

Love is hot and fiery, full of energy, lights the way, warms us from the cold. Twin flames are the greatest fire, burning brightly with love, holding up the torch so we can see ourselves in the dark. Often this is the first time we have truly seen ourselves. Who is this stranger in the shadows? We've been blind to ourselves. Deep down we always knew we were there but we couldn't see ourselves. Now that we can see ourselves it feels strange and uncomfortable, like seeing an alien or a blind man seeing for the first time. What are all these scary shapes and features I have never seen before? Can I go back to being blind because I'm not sure if I like seeing myself.

At first we are scared to be burned, but ultimately, like the proverbial moth, we know we must fly into the flame to be reborn. It will take time to get to know ourselves all over again in this new light. It will take time to learn to love the new and strange image we see before ourselves in the mirror.

When others are walking around in the dark, we are afraid of them seeing us in the light, of seeing us clearly in case they judge us. They are comfortable in their own darkness, they don't like change, they fear it too, so they try to stop you. They are not yet ready themselves to be the light so they reject those in the light, judging them as a projection of their own self-judgement of not being ready to be true themselves.

But lightbearers always lead the way. Once they get their footing by walking the path through clarity of sight they will be the pioneers, the leaders who help the others who see the flickering flame in the pitch black and are drawn to it.

Do not fret that your eyes are not yet quite adjusted to the new dawn. You are exiting the cave into a new world and of course it is natural to be cautious until you get your bearings.

All twin flames go through this. Try not to judge and blame if your twin flame seems to be hesitant for it's the same as expecting a miner who's been stuck underground for decades to suddenly be able to open their eyes wide to the bright sunshine as they ascend to the surface. They are coming up from a prison underground. They will be tired, covered in soot, hungry, overwhelmed, malnourished, starved of love and light. It takes time to settle into a new beginning, to be able to open our eyes and see clearly, to embrace the light of the sunrise.

They need your help, your unconditional love, your hand to hold and your guidance. You were once the one who stepped out of that mine. Someone helped you out of it, now return the favour with the one you love, your Eternal Beloved.

P.s. My guides want me to say that sometimes the twin who appears to be the one waiting also has more shadow work to do. Sometimes we are guilty of thinking we've brought everything into light, but there is always more room for light to be shone on the deepest shadows that are revealed in divine timing. Growth and awakening never stops."

The Twin Flame Relationship is so dramatically different from all other relationships. So how does one survive, let alone function on a day to day basis? By being willing to work through each situation, and fully committing yourself to the twin flame experience, both of you can strike a balance that can make life not only less intense, but even enjoyable for both of you.

Issue #1- He/she is not like any of my other friends/lovers etc!

You must accept that this relationship will be like no other. We do not physically select our twin flame. Instead, our twin flame is born at the beginning of the journey when the souls split. The process of reuniting begins when it is time to do so on the spiritual plane, which may not always be the best of timing on the physical plane. A twin flame reunion usually begins with a chance meeting between the two souls. Often, that meeting will occur due to a shared passion. The relationship then takes off at a faster than normal pace, with both parties becoming closer to the other quickly. This happens because even though you may have just met on the physical level, your souls have known each other for an eternity. Letting go of all expectations and comparisons to other relationships will help keep this relationship in perspective. Tell yourself that this person is not like anyone else you know, they are your twin. Expect issues to pop up that do not pop up in any other relationship. Be prepared to work through issues as they pop up, and realize that people not involved in the relationship are most likely not going to have a frame of reference for what you are experiencing. Issues in a twin flame relationship are meant to be worked out by the twin souls. Commit yourself to opening up to your twin as together you solve each problem.

Issue #2 Everything is so intense! I can’t wrap my brain around what’s happening, it makes no sense.

The twin flame relationship is the deepest, most intense connection there is. It often does not initially make sense on the physical plane. This is because a twin flame connection is not primarily a physical or body connection. It is not a purely emotional connection either, but a connection on the spiritual or astral plane between 2 souls. Expect certain things to not make sense on the physical plane. By now, you are probably wondering how to deal with the confusion. There are a few ways to handle this:

First, you need to approach every situation with the mindset, that the intensity will, in fact decrease, it’s just a matter of when and what you need to do to make that happen. One of the things that make the twin flame relationship unique is that there can be nothing between you. If a situation does come in between you, blocking that closeness, the universe will begin to pull the twin souls together. The less close the twins are, the greater the intensity of the pull toward each other

When the intensity begins to increase, first off, DON’T FIGHT IT! Fighting it will only serve to make things more intense, add drama, and make life difficult for both of you. Try to determine why the intensity is increasing. In a twin flame relationship, the intensity increases when there is a lesson to be learned. Start off by talking to your twin. If distance is an issue, pick up the phone. Try to work through it, even though it may prove extremely frustrating at times. If the phone isn’t working, get together and lock yourselves in a room somewhere, with the intent to work through it. Begin each conversation by reminding yourself that the goal is to move closer to your twin by solving the issue. If you are really struggling, get physically close together. It may seem counterintuitive to the point of being awkward, but force yourselves to have the conversation physically touching each other. The physical awkwardness can sometimes push you towards a solution quicker as it forces you to be aware of each other.

Issue #3- He/she knows every button and pushes them constantly. I’m going crazy!

Ah yes, welcome to what is known as the mirror effect. Knowing your twin flame is like standing in front of a mirror 24/7. Everything about you, the fantastic and the terrible, is reflected back in your twin. If a button is being pushed, your first inclination needs to be to look inside yourself, because the annoyance is most likely something you need to work on. If it wasn’t, it would not be bothering you. If you are struggling to figure out exactly what is causing the issue, again, ask your twin why they acted a certain way and then listen attentively with an open mind. The answer may surprise you and open the door to further growth.

Issue #4 He/she needs more than I can give, or I don’t feel I am capable of being who he/she needs me to be. Seriously, I don’t think I’m ready for this!

This is a common misconception born out of fear. It is false, because you already are everything your twin needs you to be. It is all inside you, and situations with your twin are designed to bring it out. You may need to remind yourself that your twin sees the whole you, and may sense parts of you that your conscious mind is unaware of. In these instances, you must learn to trust your twin and the relationship. Remember that everything happens for a reason and explore the connection with that in mind.

You may also be fearful of making a mistake, causing pain to yourself and your twin. Expect that you will make mistakes. This may not be your first relationship, but as far as twin flame relationships go, both of you are rookies. If you make a mistake and cause damage, remember that all damage can be repaired. So you pulled away? That’s ok, just reach out to him/her as soon as you realize a mistake has been made. Do not underestimate the power of being the first to say I’m sorry.

The other piece to all this is unconditional love. Every loving relationship, be it family, friends, enemies, or even romance, is preparing you to deal with your twin flame. If you have met your twin flame, you are ready. Remember that there is nothing you can do that will break the connection, or cause your twin to love you any less. You can use the mirror to help with this. Simply love your twin unconditionally and the way you would want to be loved. Over time, the mirror effect will begin to reflect this back toward you, and you will begin to see yourself as your twin sees you. Banish “I can’t” from your vocabulary. Instead, reach toward your twin in moments of confusion or uncertainty and say “help me.”

The final piece of advice I can give is never give up! Things may get difficult at times, but never stop reaching for, and supporting each other. Ask your twin what they need on a regular basis and be prepared to take care of each other. Do not focus on what others have to say, for in this relationship, the only importance is on the two twin flames. If one twin loses their way, pull them back in. The end reward, unconditional love, is worth it.

1. Separation - changed into Oneness
2. Longing - changed into Attraction
3. Control - changed into Faith
4. Low Self Esteem - changed into Faith in Oneself,
5. Blaming - changed into Embracing,
6. Projecting - changed into Loving Oneself,
7. Living in the past (victim) - changed into Grounded in the NOW,
8. Lack - changed into Abundance,
9. Pain - changed into Happiness,
10. Fear - changed into Trust,
11. Fear of sexual intimacy - changed into Passion of Sexual Pleasure

1. TWINS have experienced many & lonesome separation times, often for years of separation for the healing & closure of karma; now more and more TWINS will experience the physical ecstasy of bonding in a physical life, two bodies becoming ONE,

2. The longing for each other, which was so difficult to endure has stopped, because it is really not a longing for the other one, but a longing for GOD / GodSource and each TWIN has now found this inner completion, which makes it possible to reunite; so the longing is now more of an attractive pulling towards each other for the physical completion - the Spiritual inner completion must then be manifested into the physical reality...

3. Control issues, which is carried with us from the many karmic relationships have ended, there is no longer a need to control everything the other one is doing, or not doing; control has turned into a deep faith in the other one...

4. Low Self Esteem, which is a theme from past karmic lives and childhood has been dissolved and replaced with a deep inner faith in oneself, which is shown in the outside world as a most courageous human action in situation not previously believed, eg. holding a lecture in front of a big audience....or...

5. Blaming, which was a karmic theme from marriages with power control issues, where one party in shift held the power in the marriage, has been replaced by a compassionate embracing of the other one, showing only deep, unconditional love, in which the well being of the other one is highly valued...

6. Projecting, which was a theme from the old karmic relationships, in which everything that happened, happened because of the actions of the other one, has been replaced with a deep Self Love, where a deep personal commitment to everything in life is a natural choice, acknowledging that everything happens because of the actions of oneself, therefore personal responsibility is a necessary value for the success of the relationship...

7. Living in the past (victim), a theme we carry with us from past lives, where we explored every possible emotions of being a victim; the most significant theme of a victim is feeling sorry for oneself; "why does this happen to poor little me", has changed into a balanced grounding in the NOW, where we are able to live in the moment, being happy for no apparent reason, enjoying life to the fullest, being grateful for being alive ....

8. Lack, issues of financial lack, emotional lack, lack of love, lack of everything in life, which is a belief system, we were given by those who took power over Earth, and made us believe, that it was only for the chosen few to live with prosperity, has been replaced by a natural belief, that abundance and prosperity is our natural birthright, as we are Co-Creators with God, therefore have access to infinite blessings of Abundance in every area of life.....

9. Pain, which is a heritage we bring with us from past lives, where we have lived in so much pain, struggle and grief with a lot of personal loss of our loved ones, sickness, loss of material possessions, loss of children, every possible kind of loss, we can imagine, has been replaced with happiness, with a thrilling feeling of happiness in the physical body, with better health, with a glowing physical body, because of the outshining soul...

10. Fear, perhaps the emotions, which has blocked us the most, both in this incarnation now, as in the past lives; we have had implants of fear for us not to act (as Lightworkers), for us to be stuck in poverty, poor surroundings in order for a few to hold the power of Humanity, has changed into a deep trust in one another, a deep trust that only good things will happen, a deep trust in the TWIN FLAME relationship- and LOVE..... a deep trust in unconditional Love, which is our natural state of being...

11. Fear of sexual intimacy, which is a heritage from past lives, in which it was considered a sin to feel pleasure in the sexual act, especially for woman, because the sexual act was only for breeding purpose to secure the next generation, the imposed belief, that sexual intimacy was a sin, given us by the church, making us believe that God saw us as sinners, has changed into a natural desire for sexual intimacy and passion of the sexual bonding between TWINS, a most natural way of being together, as the Spirit can outlive itself through the Sexual bonding of the two bodies, in the orgasm lies a brief moment of enlightenment....

If you have met your twin flame, you are likely to have experienced the frustrating “twin flame dance” where you swing back and forth between connecting then withdrawing during the cycle of twin flame separation. This can be very confusing to the twin flames and also it can be very painful if they do not understand the divine purpose of this cycle.

However, many factors contribute for the NEED for this cycle:

1) Firstly I would say that if either of you aren’t ready to unite, it is because you’re not supposed to be ready – it’s not the right time..

Pointing the finger and blaming the other twin means you are not ready yourself either. Acceptance is needed and the ability to become whole within yourself and not feel the need for your twin flame to fill any voids in your life or heart. This has been said so many times, but it is very important to take the time to fully understand this. If you are looking to the other in order to feel love, it means you are not looking to yourself first. This void you have within will only be reflected back to you by your twin flame. It means you can’t unite because there are gaps you need to fill in yourselves so that you can reflect wholeness back to each other and your split can be healed. If you were to join when you are not whole, you would live in eternity with great pain still remaining.

2) The twin flame separation happens because you haven’t reached unconditional love and acceptance for yourself and your twin.

Sometimes it is very difficult to not get caught up in your own views, emotions, ideals and forget that your twin has their own view of things. Often it is the ego that stands in the way; you just can’t seem to agree on anything. This is because you are both coming to the same conclusions from the opposite angles. Remember the mirror; You are the counterpart, the opposite yet identical energy vibrations. You work together through love, but come to it from opposite sides. The result is still the same though – love.

It is the ego though, that causes us to feel that the other is doing it “all wrong”. We say to ourselves, “If he/she loved me, then he/she would show it the way I am showing it.” We conclude that if our twin doesn’t express themselves the same way as us, then they just don’t love us. We begin to regard them as cold, heartless and even cruel.

My own thinking used to be so one-sided. I believed he was messing me around and playing me for a fool. I felt extremely hurt and in turn acted in ways which hurt him. Blinded by my own fear of losing him and trying to “prove” his love, I hadn’t thought once about how I was hurting him (and I must say looking back, i was doing pretty much the same things to him that he was doing to me, but in a mirrored fashion). I also never even considered the fact that deep down I knew I wasn’t ready to unite at that time either – all my focus was on him – he wasn’t doing this, he wasn’t doing that and it hurt my pride so much that the painful rejection is all i could think of. I tried to protect myself by shutting down. I chased him, but in a way that made out it was all some trivial game of power. He tried to protect himself by trying to make me chase him (to prove to himself my love for him), then doing the same as I was.

The major factor that we fail to miss though, is that many of the negative behaviour is caused by FEAR, which leads me onto my next point:

3) Twin flames separate because at first the connection feels ”crazy”. It threatens all that we think we know about the way the world works.

You bump into your twin flame for the first time. Boom! Something happens, you know this person somehow even though you don’t recognise them on a physical level. You feel such intense love, but you wonder how this can be so when you don’t know them. You conclude it’s just lust, but why is there that knowing feeling deep in your soul? You know your life has changed forever, you can just sense it, but you don’t have a clue why. Then you can’t stop thinking about this person ALL THE TIME, re-living times when you saw him/her over and over and over. The love you feel for this person increases over time when you think logically it should fade. You can’t stop fantasising about them, being distracted by thinking of them to the point that you cannot concentrate on anything else. You just feel scared. Scared of losing this person somehow. Scared you have already lost them. Scared because you don’t even know them and that it means you are crazy to feel such intensity.

So you “run” from it. You try to block it out and convince yourself it’s just lust. You’ve been taught by society that it’s unhealthy to pine after someone for too long, therefore you try your hardest to forget all about him/her. But you can’t. You try your hardest, but you just can’t. Then you bump into him/her again unexpectedly and all those feelings flood back to you. All your hard work to try and kill these feelings goes down the drain and within a second you are back to square one. Tie this in with all the reflected fear, arguments, confusion and it all gets even more scary. Sometimes it just feels safer to run away and hope it all just disappears…

It’s understandable (or at least it should be) that fear is going to present itself in this situation. It’s a fight or flight situation and often twin flames run. But remember, this running is needed in order for them to have the distance to MAKE SENSE of it all. Granted, it could take years, but the point is, if you or your twin flame are “running”, then it is because this is part of your life path – to get the distance to make sense of this new reality.

It’s to do with overcoming the ego. It takes time. It’s as if we have to reprogram ourselves to learn to live from soul consciousness rather than ego consciousness. It won’t come over night. We have incarnated possibly hundreds of times, living in our egos. We can’t expect ourselves or our twins to suddenly flick a switch and be back to living fully in our soul consciousness.

4) Twin flames reconnect for reassurance.

They want to know you are still there. They want to test if you still love them because they definately know they love you, but are scared it is just one-sided and you’ve “gotten over” them. Of course they’ll deny it though.

5) Twin flames reconnect to heal each other.

Through the cycle of separation and connection, the twin flames are often destined to meet up in the physical several times in order to heal each other. When a stage of healing within each individual is complete, they will meet again to connect and expand each other in energy (love) which they will then need to separate again to “process”. It’s as if they meet up to receive a challenge. Once they know what the challenge is (subconsciously) they both go their separate ways to achieve it. Once achieve, they receive that healing and go onto the next.

6) We separate from our twin flames when we have individual karma to be balanced.

Karma – the cause and effect cycle created by us through our lifetimes needs to be balanced before we can unite with our twin flames. Before we incarnated into this lifetime, and any other lifetime, our souls made agreements with other souls to meet on the physical plane and learn lessons from each other. They may be tough lessons, wonderful lessons but all will be helpful in the end. By this I mean that eventually, even if we perceive a situation to be negative, we will always learn a positive from it. All karma must be fulfilled by the individual twins before they can come back together again in unity.

7) We (may) separate from our twin flames when we are destined to be in other relationships.

Through connecting with your twin flame, you will feel increased love in your soul as long as you are able to put ego aside. Oftentimes we may marry a soul mate in order to share this increased love with them to help them awaken too. OR we may already be in another relationship when we meet our twin flame. This relationship will help us learn about love in order to prepare us for our twin flame. Either way, we learn from our soulmates and they learn from us.

8) We separate so we aren’t distracted from our individual awakening.

If we were together all the time before reunion occurred, we would remain reflecting our own voids that we need to heal individually. We would also not be able to balance our separate karma with others and would not have the yearning for each other as a catalyst to greater spiritual searching.

So you see, the cycle of separation and connection is NEEDED in order for us to fully heal, awaken and fulfil our mission to help humankind through our knowledge and light. We must all accept the journey towards reunion as JUST AS IMPORTANT as union itself. To unite too quickly before we are ready would leave us unfulfilled and unhealed.

We must accept ourselves and be aware of the twin flame signs and not blame each other for not being ready NOW. It’s all part of the process; it’s all part of the path we agreed upon before birth. ACCEPT your path and yourselves and it will all come to you in perfect time.