Is your twin flame already married or living with a partner? Are you the single one, waiting for them to step into their truth and stop living a lie? Many twin flames find themselves in this situation. Some of the married twins do genuinely want to leave the marriage and begin to live their truth and some actively work towards those intentions. Others however, are too fearful so always say they will leave but their actions never back up their words. And then there are some who never truly intend to leave the marriage and are leading you on so they can have their cake and eat it. It can be hard to see clearly which category your married twin falls into when you are in the thick of things.
My main advice would be to listen to your gut. Can you truly see your twin leaving that relationship? Is it all just talk? Will they ever have the courage to step into their truth? How long have you been waiting? Sadly, the longer you have been waiting, the less likely they will leave in many cases. Do you trust him or are you kidding yourself that he will live his truth? Is he pulling the wool over your eyes? A true twin flame would genuinely want to live their truth and you will just know deep down.
However, there is the exception of a twin who stays in the marriage simply because they still don't fully understand your twin flame connection and that they are even being urged to follow their truth. They still haven't distinguished between ego and soul truth yet, so feel they "should" stay in the marriage as that is what society expects. This is often when they are very hot and cold with you, not knowing whether to follow the head or heart.
But my advice to you would be to create healthy boundaries for yourself. And yes that means stop sleeping with your twin flame when there is no physical commitment from him! If you are giving yourself completely to your twin, in many cases you will be giving them the easy option of avoiding facing their fears and breaking free from the marriage, but also feeling their soul truth with you. This can enable them to live in the limbo of both worlds and never truly having the incentive to do things properly.
What message are you sending out if you are freely giving your twin flame everything and they aren't giving you everything in return? It shows you do not value or respect yourself so he won't either. He will see it as you are willing to sacrifice your own needs because you are desperate for him even though he is not treating you right. The worst part is many twin flames report he disappears immediately after you were intimate with him and only returns when he wants sexual intimacy again.
Twin flame connections are primarily about teaching you how to love yourself. But if you are being a martyr then you are missing the point and a true reunion will never happen as long as you continue this way. Many say they fear that if they pull away then that will be the end of the connection. Well, doesn't that say a lot? Why would you even want to be with someone if it always had to be you holding it together? If it falls apart as soon as you step back and create a balance, then it is likely this person isn't your twin flame after all.
Another instance is when a married twin actually told you he won't be leaving his marriage but you stay, holding onto hope that he will change his mind. Why would he have to if you are already giving him everything he wants? If a guy is telling you this, then you need to take him seriously.
Are you waiting for him to complete you? Are you constantly suffering and not taking responsibility for your own wholeness and happiness? This is no way to go about a twin flame reunion. It means you are missing the lessons that this time of separation is presenting you with.
In some cases, a married twin flame truly does need your support. But this doesn't mean having no boundaries for yourself or sacrificing yourself in the hopes of having him commit to you eventually in return.
Are you both learning and growing in this stage or not?
What does your gut say?
Is your focus mostly on soul growth or physical relationship?
Are you waiting for your life to begin, always concentrating on the future rather than living in the now? If you truly want to unite, then you have to make your own life begin right now, not wait or put yourself on hold in any way. Putting yourself on hold means halting your soul growth which is actually delaying a possible reunion further.
There are ways you can interact with your twin flame in healthy ways where you are loving yourself and your twin is reflecting that back to you. It's time to truly look at yourself and your situation and determine if you need to make any changes.
About me : My name is Gina. I am a twin flame and one of the highly sought after advisers in the area of Sacred Unions. You are not going crazy! You are not obsessed, you have met someone that is here to teach you and the universe will not let you walk away. This is the beginning of a very important journey, let me help you and guide the way. I will give you honest and direct answers. Not all advisors understand the Twin Flame dynamic so be careful and use discernment when getting advice. If it doesnt resonate then dont allow it in. I have found that unless you are a twin flame and been on this journey, you have no idea how to give advice let alone read for someone who is.
My approach is always very loving but honest and direct. I will not waste your time and just tell you what you "want" to hear. I will tell you exactly what I "see" or "feel" about the situation or person in question, not only on a 3D level but on the soul level as well. It may not always be easy to receive but it will be what you need. If you are not ready for the truth, then I may not be the advisor for you. In regards to Twin Flames/Soul Mates and Divine Connections, because I myself have been on this journey and know how challenging it can be, I come not only from a place of understanding and love but from a place of being able to interpret blocks and wounding to help heal, not only the connection but first and foremost yourself.
These connections are very difficult and bring up core wounds to be healed but there is no way around it, that is why they have come into your life and there is no turning back. Universe will continue to bring the lessons in until it is healed. These are not your every day relationship issues, which is why the connection and the pull is so strong. To heal, to grow and to clear on an energetic level. With your permission, I am able to pull energetically from the akashic records and translate what your souls agreement is as well as translate the energies according to the current paths you and your partner are currently on and help guide you through it.
To get the most from your reading, please be specific with your questions and ground yourself. I am a channel..In addition to reading energy, I use Tarot for accuracy and clarity. But I do not rely only on cards, as a channel, information will flow through me that you may not have asked about, so please be open to receiving what spirit has to give. It is truly a gift. I keep my per minute fee low as most of my clients are calling regarding deep soul connections that can be complicated by karmic partners, marriages etc, and it will take more then a few minutes to interpret/read the energy as well as give guidance and deliver messages. If you dont get your question answered the way you expected or wanted, please dont shoot the messenger. Just know I am only the channel and will deliver what I'm given. It may not make sense now, but I assure you it will soon. Because I read energy, if you are looking for confirmation if someone is your twin flame it is best to call, I wont do confirmations or general readings via "chat".
Know that I am here out of love and dedication to this journey and to the mission of healing. My life has been transformed, although it wasnt easy, it has been beautiful. I have so much gratitude and am humbled to be service to anyone who seeks guidance. Although a few minutes or even one session may not be enough time to get answers to all your questions and help you solve your issues, I am generous with free minutes for those that are serious and seek true guidance and I also offer coaching at a lower per minute rate. Message me if you would like details.
I have been reading and coaching Twin Flames and Soul Mates across the country. Each person I read for is shocked at my accuracy and the guidance I have been able to give. Even the most experienced psychics have said they cant believe how in tune I am with their situation.
I don't believe in coincidences, if you found me you were divinely guided to me. If you are experiencing any of what I discussed, I am here to guide you. Feel free to check out my reviews and be sure to check out the rest of my blog for more very helpful information.